runs-deep I (Juli) recently dreamed I was climbing a lot of barriers (including locked gates) to get to my sponsored child Nuy, and she was doing the same to get to me.

Nuy is the precious girl in Thailand I sponsored from the time she was 8 years old until she graduated from the Leadership Development Program last year.

In the dream, when we finally got past all the barriers, representing race, language and distance, and met in the middle, we hugged eagerly.

When I awoke, I recalled the real hugs we’d shared when I traveled to Thailand for her graduation — when we truly celebrated all the obstacles she overcame and the barriers we broke through over the years.

We shared a meal together for the first time, and on Mother’s Day no less. Words can’t describe the joy and satisfaction of that moment!

Chris: When we heard Mom was going to Thailand to attend Nuy’s Leadership Development Program graduation, my sister, Sarah, and I offered to go along.

We had grown up with Nuy, reading her letters around the dinner table and praying for her.

I didn’t know what to expect when we met her, knowing she had grown up in poverty. And when I saw her, right in front of me — beautiful, intelligent, nicely dressed — I wondered if she’d really needed us.

Then I realized, it worked. It really worked. She’s no longer in poverty.

Yes, she has chosen to stay with her mother in simple surroundings, caring for two small nephews, but she has a good job, is supporting her family, and is out of poverty. Wow! Compassion works.

Sarah: After the graduation ceremony, Nuy took us to a huge market and chose foods to cook as her gift to us.

The market was a crazy place with lots of things I hoped she wouldn’t buy, like the heads of pigs, slimy squids and intestines of various animals.

Thankfully, she made perfect choices and later we sat on the floor of the Leadership Development Program apartment, on a mat, eating the most delicious meal!

One other sponsor couple was also there with their student, Pen.

Chris: Hanging out with Nuy was fun, and meeting her in person was a step beyond the letters we had shared through the years. We had an extra day together after graduation, and soon we were taking goofy photos, laughing together, and sitting on the backs of elephants.

Sarah: We also went floating down a river on rafts. Elephants and wild water buffalo were all around and my brother and I pretended we were Huck Finn and Tom Sawyer! It was a blast!

Nuy is seen here with her mentor, Gratae, but Mom stayed back with Nuy’s mom, Bo, and the translators.

Juli: I’m so glad to have had time to visit with Bo. What a beautiful woman! She kept thanking me tearfully for staying with Nuy and not quitting.

As it turned out, she’d had a sponsor before us who had quit after one year.

What Bo didn’t know was that I couldn’t have continued sponsoring Nuy when she was accepted into the Leadership Development Program, but God had provided several friends to be partners in praying for Nuy and to help make the sponsorship payments; I didn’t want to lose her for anything.

Bo told me that the people at the child development center asked her to cook for the children, and she did so for years.

Since she was working at the Compassion center she would often sit in on Nuy’s lessons with her, and that’s how she also came to know Christ as the answer to her deepest needs.

Sarah: It was sad to say goodbye to Nuy, but we knew she was in God’s hands. I took this last photo of Mom and Nuy hugging. Nuy had just written something in Mom’s journal when she asked for her autograph (written in Thai, but later translated):

“Thank you for the love of God that you and your family give to me. I’m very glad and feel warm in my heart. Thank you so much for such a great time in only a few days.

I promise that I will miss you and pray for you often. And thank you for your embrace, which I’ve been awaiting for so long. It feels just like I’m hugging my mom.”

Chris: In addition, we had the opportunity to visit a child development center and meet three children in need of sponsors.

I wanted to sponsor this little girl, Film, but didn’t feel I could take on a second child yet; I’m sponsoring a little boy in Peru whom I also hope to visit some day.

It didn’t take long for Mom to find sponsors for all of them when we got home, although she chose to sponsor Mod-Daeng for herself.

Film’s sponsoring family is with her this month in Thailand — we all wanted to hide out in their luggage and go back too!

Sarah: We also went on a home visit and met this amazing family. They graciously offered some water, and we shared gifts we had brought.

Mom also found a sponsor for a child named, Fram — the sponsor is the youth pastor of our church.

Fram’s parents were the nicest, most sincere people, and we loved meeting them!

And we had a great time with all the Compassion staff; they are amazing friends we will remember forever.

Juli: I had a correspondence girl named Emjay in the Philippines, and could not imagine failing to meet her, too, as she was also graduating from the Leadership Development Program. So we also were able to visit Emjay’s home.

What a hoot to ride around in this tiny green motorella, all scrunched together!

We had a great time, traveling by various vehicles to a beautiful island, and hanging out with sweet Emjay and her delightful center director, Eva.

Since they spoke fluent English, the bonding and silliness came very quickly and easily between all of us!

I’m thankful for the blessings our sponsored children have been to us as a family. My kids have a greater interest in missions, in foreign travel, and in needs around the world because of it.

They have true compassion in their hearts for others. They have worked to help others in places like New Orleans and the Gulf Coast, soup kitchens and foreign mission fields.

Although my oldest son and my husband were not able to go on this trip, they are eager to help at a table when I speak for unsponsored children in churches as a volunteer Child Advocate.

This past Mother’s Day I got an interesting gift from Sarah, and called to ask what it meant. The number 38 rang a bell for me, but I wasn’t sure what she meant by her note.

I called her, and she said,

“Mom, for your gift this year I’m sponsoring a child.”

Wow! I couldn’t hold back the tears.

Compassion runs deep in our family. God’s ways are amazing!

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  1. Sep 21, 2011
    at 1:42 am

    That’s awesome, Juli!!!

  2. Teresa
    Sep 21, 2011
    at 5:27 am

    LOVE it! Engaging our children is going to change our world through the years.

  3. Jo Anna Crawford
    Sep 21, 2011
    at 6:01 am

    Beautiful post! We have sponsored a sweet girl in Guatemala for over 2 years now. Last year my husband and I were able to visit her. This year, we took our girls ages 9 and 11 with us to Guatemala so they could meet her, too. I would highly recommend sponsors try to visit their sponsored children. It is a life changing experience for everyone involved!

  4. Sep 21, 2011
    at 7:32 am

    Wow thank you for sharing! What a great testimony and experience for your family! My family is somewhat involved… my oldest daughter traveled to Kenya last yr at this time and was able to meet an LDP student and er have all become close to her… my youngest daughter sponsored her first child this past June … Jazzy Rain from the Philippines. She also correspondence w/ a little girl too.

    I became an advocate in June. Your words encourage me…. Compassion is life changing!

    Grace~

  5. Sep 21, 2011
    at 8:43 am

    I love this, Juli! This is my dream for my own family – that Compassion would become part of who we are. I love how sponsorship provides such a hans on way for families to pursue ministry together.

    Currently we are dreaming up a family trip to either Thailand or the DR….not sure if they will happen sooner or later, but it’s fun to dream!

    I love the gift Sarah gave you….I’ve never had anyone sponsor a child as a gift to me, but I have had family members and friends make donations to Compassion for my birthday.

    • Sep 21, 2011
      at 4:39 pm

      It was gift that multiplies many times over — to more than one person — so special!

  6. Sep 21, 2011
    at 9:41 am

    How beautiful to see the fruits of your love and Compassion. Thanks for sharing, Juli!

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  8. Teri
    Sep 21, 2011
    at 8:13 pm

    Thanks for the happy tears!!! That check at the end did me in!!! I look forward to going back to Ecuador this coming February to see our dear, sweet Kassandra, whom we have sponsored for 7 years…I met her in 2010…but the exciting thing is this time my husband and one of our sons is going with me! And we will also be meeting the boy our son is sponsoring!!! Our son is 12…and his boy is 5. They have been exchanging letters very regularly, so I think they will be happy to meet! That will be a precious day…more happy tears to come!!! :)

    • Sep 22, 2011
      at 7:27 am

      Love the happy tears! I shed a few when that check arrived in the mail too!

  9. Sep 22, 2011
    at 12:15 am

    I really like your initiative in finding friends to help you continue sponsorship all the way through LDP. Great idea!

    • Sep 22, 2011
      at 7:28 am

      Yes — it worked real well. I may have another one coming up too — I have a young boy in Indonesia that is already taking a leadership role in his project, and I have a girl in Kenya that is about to apply for LDP, so I may be starting all over again with this. I sure hope so!

  10. Khwanjai Komkai
    Sep 23, 2011
    at 3:06 am

    Thanks Juli for sharing this. It’s great to hear that how is the impact of sponsoring in sponsor’s life. You guys are a blessing to Thai Children. God bless you :)

  11. kizzy
    Sep 25, 2011
    at 4:34 am

    a beautiful story :-) i just sponsored my first child yesterday and i was wanting to know if i ever wanted to visit him like the people in this article did how long do you have to sponsor the child before you could visit them?

    • Danielle
      Sep 25, 2011
      at 10:58 am

      There is no length of time before you can visit your sponsored child! I signed up for a Compassion tour about a month after sponsoring my first child. I then met her about 9 months after that! It was a wonderful experience and I know I would never be the sponsor I am now, if I hadn’t gone on that trip. I have since been back to see her again! Once you go, it’s hard to stay away :)

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