Sponsorship Makes the Difference Between Life or Death

life or death At night when no one was watching and the guard had been bribed, Rose, her four children and her husband would huddle together in one of the stalls of the local market to sleep. Rose and her husband were HIV-positive, and their health was getting worse and worse.

With no jobs and no rent money, they spent a year homeless in the chilly Rwandan nights.

“We lived in the market for a year while bribing the market guard not to send us out until a friend of my husband rented a tiny house for us. The house was so tiny that later my husband’s coffin could not fit.”

Rose’s husband passed away in 2004 from HIV-related illnesses, leaving her and her children in an even more desperate situation.

“I did not have even 100 Rwandan francs (U.S. $0.17) with children to feed and no source of income. My biggest concern was where we would leave our children as I watched my and my husband’s health waste away.”

But at this lowest point in their lives, a local church, a Compassion partner, intervened. The church was sponsoring children in need, and Aliane, one of Rose’s four children, was sponsored.

According to center staff member Sebazima, Aliane’s health was in critical condition when she was first registered.

“She was very weak and sick. She had a big swelling on her face, which was later diagnosed as tuberculosis of the jaw. Almost all of her teeth were decayed.”

The child development center helped Aliane get medical attention, including a test to find out if she was suffering from the same virus that killed her father. She was.

“It is from such biting poverty and nakedness that Compassion gathered my life and restored hope, not only for Aliane, but for my entire family,” says Rose.

Aliane and her mother were able to receive antiretroviral drugs, along with nutritional supplements such as milk, fish and rice to keep them strong while taking the medicine.

Once Rose’s health had improved, she received money to start a small business. She had experience in embroidering, so she bought an embroidering machine to start a sewing business.

Rose was skilled, and she received many requests to make school sweaters for children, including a contract to make sweaters for Compassion-sponsored children.

Since that time, Rose’s business has blossomed. With her profits, she has bought four more sewing machines and employs workers to meet the increasing demand for her sweaters.

Rose has also been able to buy a four-room house for her family and business, along with a piece of land where she is planning to plant a vegetable garden.

Young Aliane is now 15 years old and in her first year of secondary school. She is one of the brightest students in her class and likes chemistry and math.

“Compassion got me when I was very, very poor. They registered me and took me to school. They paid my fees, gave me shoes, and blessed me with a wonderful sponsor. We didn’t have a house but now we are in our own home. My mum had one sewing machine, but now we have many. I used to be very sick, but now I am okay. I know I shall live long like everyone else who is not HIV-positive.”

Aliane’s siblings also now have hope for their future. Rose has managed to send her other three children to school with the profits from her sewing business.

With tears, Rose says, “Compassion added days to my life and enabled me to have a home for my children. They have stood by me, comforted me, and given me spiritual and moral support. I can only pray a blessing to the entire family of Compassion.”

Rose, who once slept in a cold market stall with no hope other than death, is now able to provide for her family, bring jobs to her community, and a message of hope to all she encounters.

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  1. Allyson August 29, 2011

    Wow God is good

  2. Kerry February 8, 2011

    Awesome Jill. This story touches me big time. I also am from Saskatchewan. I sponsored a young girl in Haiti only two or three months before the massive quake. It sure hits close to home when you have someone there you are responsible for and connected to. I too plan to give a gift to help the entire family. We have so much in comparison to them…we are rich. I sure see why you are blessed out of your socks. Talk about making a life changing difference in their lives. Good for you! Awesome!

  3. Monica February 6, 2011

    Wow, this was such a powerful story. Thank you for sharing. It’s so wonderful to hear a story from people who have been impacted so positively.

  4. Jill February 4, 2011

    Thank you so much for this article Compassion! This is my little girl! I am so blessed to hear more about her and her family and to find out they are all doing so well.

    When I sold my condo 6 years ago, I sent my first-ever family gift. I had a home and they didn’t. That money was used to buy the weaving loom, and all I had heard was that a few sweaters had been made. It amazes me to see how that loom and one little family gift has turned this family’s life around.

    This is one of those stories that I never expected to hear or know about until heaven. My socks are blessed off! Thank you so much!

    1. JD February 5, 2011

      Jill — what a wonderful blessing to see a sponsor responding to the story of their sponsored child! I loved this article, it is one of thousands of examples of the difference Jesus makes through Compassion, and it warmed my heart that the entire family is thriving and that hope lives on through them.

      What a huge blessing that family gift was… wow!! It makes me wonder what we may not know about how our sponsorship and gifts have helped our own sponsored kids. We don’t have to know, but it is a lovely blessing what God chooses to share!

  5. Dorothy Budu-Arthur February 2, 2011

    This’ a real touching story….This’ what our brethren need; care and compassion, especially from the church and not discrimination, scorn or stigmatization…We may not be able to help HIV victims financially but our words should be of encouragement enough to give them a living hope.

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