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	<title>Poverty &#187; relationships</title>
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		<title>A Strong Partnership Is About Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 07:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img width="165" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/church-partner-haiti-165x99.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="church-partner-haiti" title="church-partner-haiti" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" />Partnering between the resource-rich part of the Church and the resource-poor part of the Church is not something particularly new or noble. It is just what we should do. It is simply what Paul asked the early Church to do.<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="165" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/church-partner-haiti-165x99.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="church-partner-haiti" title="church-partner-haiti" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" /><p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/importance-of-relationships.gif" alt="importance of relationships" width="10" height="10" /> While the Bible doesn’t use the word <em>partnership</em>, we see examples in the Bible of churches partnering together from the earliest history of the Church. And the principles we learn from the Bible about humility, equality and mutuality should guide how we work in partnership.</p>
<p>At Compassion, we highly value our relationships with local churches in the countries where we work. They minister on the front lines to the children we serve. They also minister to us.</p>
<p>As Compassion Latin America and Caribbean regional vice president Edouard Lassegue writes,</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Though these congregations may be under-resourced financially, often they are spiritually rich and vibrant and able to contribute in an authentic two-way relationship.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Much of the Christian Church today has been blessed with significant resources, financial and otherwise. Other parts of the global body of believers struggle with tremendous limitations of resources yet have incredible opportunities for ministry.</p>
<p>Partnering between the resource-rich part of the Church and the resource-poor part of the Church is not something particularly new or noble. It is just what we should do. It is simply what Paul asked the early Church to do.</p>
<p>It is only right and practical for churches in various parts of the world to partner together to care for each other and to advance the gospel and the kingdom of God.</p>
<p>When the Body of Christ comes together in partnership, we honor and obey Jesus’ mandate that His followers act as one. But it takes time to develop a partnership — especially the relational aspects of partnership.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-30116" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/church-partner-haiti.jpg" alt="" width="425" height="283" /></p>
<p>Relationship is central to partnership. In the countries where we work, partnerships are perceived as being primarily relational. But often in North America and many of our sponsoring countries, partnerships tend to be contractual in nature.</p>
<p>True partnership requires the ability to set aside tasks and agendas long enough for the partners to listen to each other, identify their common mission and understand what each partner can contribute.<span id="more-29753"></span></p>
<p>Edouard Lassegue says:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Many times we rush through the process of partnership without taking the time to recognize and put in place the necessary building blocks of partnership. We jump into action without developing the foundation of true partnership — solid relationship.</p>
<p>&#8220;On one hand, lack of relationship causes a church in [a developing country] to see its relationship with a parachurch organization or congregation [in a developed nation] as a funding mechanism and not as true partnership that demonstrates equality in Christ, mutual benefits, and sharing resources and lessons together.</p>
<p>&#8220;On the other hand, lack of relationship causes the church or parachurch organization from [the developed nation] to want to solve problems for the local church in a paternalistic way, treating that church as a child needing direction, provision and supervision. … True partnership is based on solid relationship.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>At Compassion, we seek healthy relationships in spite of these potential obstacles. We intentionally hire national staff in every country in which we serve. Our front-line relationship manager with every church partner (the partnership facilitator) is selected as one who is as close to the partner&#8217;s culture as possible to encourage relationship and communication.</p>
<p>We must walk together, talk together, and have tea together before we will be effective in working together. Real partnership is an ongoing journey, and it takes time.</p>
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		<title>The Spiritual Discipline of One Word</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 07:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Giovagnoni</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.compassion.com/?p=28029</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[<img width="165" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/there-is-no-one-like-jesus-165x99.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="there is no one like Jesus" title="there-is-no-one-like-jesus" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" />The words we get each year are foundational words. They build the altar upon which we worship Christ, in word and action. They have relevance every year of our lives.<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="165" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/there-is-no-one-like-jesus-165x99.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="there is no one like Jesus" title="there-is-no-one-like-jesus" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" /><p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/spiritual-discipline.gif" alt="spiritual discipline" width="10" height="10" /> <em>Anger</em>. That&#8217;s the word I&#8217;d use to sum up my year. It&#8217;s been a year of battles. Battling my wife. Battling myself. Battling God.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a good thing for us that the battleground is a fertile place for God&#8217;s love in our lives.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-28041" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/there-is-no-one-like-jesus.jpg" alt="there is no one like Jesus" width="450" height="299" /></p>
<p>In 2011, my anger ruled me more than I care to admit. I often felt helpless to control it, to rise above it. I felt like a beast. Primal. At times predator. At times preyed upon. <span id="more-28029"></span></p>
<p>In January, when I wrote my annual blog post about prayerfully choosing one word to define the upcoming year, I felt encouraged by the word given to me by the Holy Spirit: <em>closer</em>.</p>
<p>I thought the word was a promise of deeper intimacy with Jesus. I hoped the word signaled the end of my depression. But that was me overlooking the layers in God&#8217;s Word, the complexity within the simplicity.</p>
<p>Even though the year is drawing down and <em>closer</em> is tied to 2011, it&#8217;s not a tie that immobilizes; it&#8217;s a tie that connects. The words we get each year are foundational words. They build the altar upon which we worship Christ, in word and action. They have relevance every year of our lives.</p>
<ul>
<li><em>Obedience</em></li>
<li><em>Relationships</em></li>
<li><em>Reconciliation</em></li>
<li><em>Growth</em></li>
<li><em>Shine</em></li>
<li><em>Closer</em></li>
</ul>
<p>I will continue to be shaped by <em>closer</em>, beyond December 31. It&#8217;s now a <a href="http://blog.compassion.com/the-importance-of-names/">part of my name</a>.</p>
<p>Even if we don&#8217;t experience the fullness of our word each year, at least in the ways we expect to, the year isn&#8217;t a failure. We aren&#8217;t failures.</p>
<p>I dare say we never will experience the fullness of this annual discipline as long as we assume the discipline is about us receiving something rather than about receiving someone &#8212; about receiving Jesus.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>How did 2011 turn out for you?</strong></li>
<li><strong>What was your word for 2011, and what word has the Holy Spirit bestowed upon you for 2012?</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>Please take the time to let me know.</p>
<p>Prayerfully choosing one word that embodies the promise of the upcoming year is a discipline I picked up from Dan Britton, the executive vice president of ministry programs at the Fellowship of Christian Athletes.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve chosen one word each year since 2006 and have been <a href="http://blog.compassion.com/tag/one-word/">encouraging sponsors to join me</a> in the practice since 2008.</p>
<p>For 2012, my word is <em>thanksgiving</em>.</p>
<hr />
<p>For important points to consider before beginning this spiritual discipline read Dan&#8217;s essay, <a href="http://giovagnoni.googlepages.com/One.doc" target="_blank">One Word</a>.</p>
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		<title>Building Relationships That Last!</title>
		<link>http://blog.compassion.com/building-relationships-that-last/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 08:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kees Boer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Letter Writing]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img width="99" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Screen-shot-2010-12-28-at-1.07.33-PM-150x150.png" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Screen shot 2010-12-28 at 1.07.33 PM" title="Screen shot 2010-12-28 at 1.07.33 PM" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" />Ouma Willy, a former Leadership Development Program student who currently studies at Moody Bible Institute, shares his experience as a recipient of letters from sponsors. His testimony will no doubt encourage you to keep writing to your sponsored children!<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="99" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Screen-shot-2010-12-28-at-1.07.33-PM-150x150.png" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Screen shot 2010-12-28 at 1.07.33 PM" title="Screen shot 2010-12-28 at 1.07.33 PM" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" /><p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/building-relationships.gif" alt="building relationships" width="10" height="10" /> In this video, I interview Ouma Willy, a former Leadership Development Program student who currently studies at Moody Bible Institute, about his experience as a recipient of letters from sponsors. His testimony will no doubt encourage you to keep writing to your sponsored children!</p>
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<p>You can also view this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E1QfcTFhSck" target="_blank">Building Relationships</a> video on YouTube.</p>
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		<title>In One Word, 2011 Will Be About &#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.compassion.com/in-one-word-2011-will-be-about/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Jan 2011 08:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Giovagnoni</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The words the Holy Spirit shares with us require us to "step up." This discipline is not something to do on a lark because it sounds fun. It requires a commitment. It's something that requires you to lean into the Lord and to step up and assume responsibility for the talents He has given you. <p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/in-one-word.gif" alt="" width="10" height="10" /> Each year, usually in December, I write a <a href="http://blog.compassion.com/tag/one-word/">blog post</a> encouraging you to ask the Holy Spirit to give you a word for the upcoming year. Not a phrase, not a statement, just one word &#8212; a word to serve as your lens to better see and interpret how He is moving in your life.</p>
<p>This is a discipline I picked up from Dan Britton, the Executive Vice President of Ministry Programs at the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. I&#8217;ve chosen one word each year since 2006, but this year, I decided to skip it.</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m pretty far from God right now. I&#8217;m clinically depressed, and my beliefs have gotten disconnected from my behavior.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not doubting or questioning anything about Christ, I&#8217;m just not moving forward with Him. I&#8217;m mired in emotional and spiritual temper tantrums. So, in spite, I decided not to pick a word for 2011 and not to write a post &#8230; until God sent me an e-mail, via a co-worker.</p></blockquote>
<p>My co-worker, Patrick, told me about the word he&#8217;d chosen for 2010 and the experience he had relating to God with the word in the forefront of his mind.</p>
<p>To me, that was God saying,</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I&#8217;m here. I care. Let me show you something.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>I felt convicted &#8230; and selfish, because the discipline of choosing one word as a theme for the year isn&#8217;t about me and how I&#8217;m feeling. It&#8217;s about Jesus. And it&#8217;s about each of our relationships with Him.</p>
<p>Patrick says that choosing one word for 2010 was &#8220;one of the best things [he] decided to do with [his] life up to this point.&#8221; And I usually say the same thing, except the words the Lord has given me NEVER play out like I expect them to.</p>
<p>Last year, my word was <em>shine</em>, and I was excited about it, particularly since the previous year my word was <em>growth</em>.</p>
<p>One word sounds painful and difficult, while the other word suggests promise and harvest. But the truth is, the words are similar to one another. They&#8217;re not gifts, they&#8217;re complex calls to action.</p>
<blockquote><p>The words the Holy Spirit shares with us require us to &#8220;step up.&#8221; This discipline is not something to do on a lark because it sounds fun. It requires a commitment. It&#8217;s something that requires you to lean into the Lord and to step up and assume responsibility for the talents He has given you. I did not do that in 2010.</p></blockquote>
<p>I sat back and waited for my harvest. And I did experience a harvest in many ways. The most significant being the birth of my first daughter, Cara (Beloved). But with the harvest comes work and for me to truly <em>shine</em> I need to step up and keep stepping up.</p>
<p>The words we get now are the foundation for the words we get in the future; they rest atop one another, strengthening our faith, defining our walk with Jesus and serving as snapshots of points in our lives.</p>
<p>For me, my brief walk with Jesus has been upon these words.</p>
<p><em>Obedience</em>.<br />
<em>Relationships</em>.<br />
<em>Reconciliation</em>.<br />
<em>Growth</em>.<br />
<em>Shine</em>.<br />
And now, <em>Closer</em>.</p>
<p><strong>What is your word for 2011?</strong></p>
<hr />
<ul>
<li><em>Read Dan&#8217;s document, <a href="http://giovagnoni.googlepages.com/One.doc" target="_blank">One Word</a>, for suggestions that will help you with this spiritual discipline</em>.</li>
</ul>
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		<title>Why Do Child Development Centers Close?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Nov 2010 08:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Web Team</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img width="99" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/deliverance-church-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="deliverance-church" title="deliverance-church" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" />We partner with more than 5,000 churches worldwide to implement our sponsorship program. And last year, 95 centers closed, about 1.7 percent of the centers open at the time. The number of child development centers that close each year varies. They close for a variety of reasons, and each case is different.<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img width="99" height="99" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/deliverance-church-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="deliverance-church" title="deliverance-church" style="float:left; margin:0 15px 15px 0;" /><p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/child-development-center.gif" alt="child development center" width="10" height="10" /> You started sponsoring little Jessica three years ago. You picked her because of her mischievous grin and her pigtails. You’ve been writing letters back and forth and are slowly starting to feel like you’re getting a glimpse into her world and what her daily life is like. You’re praying for her, and you find you’ve grown quite attached.</p>
<p>Then you find out that her child development center has closed, and suddenly this relationship you’ve begun to build comes to an abrupt end.</p>
<p>Naturally, you want more information, but are left with the little that you got through the last communication.</p>
<p>We partner with more than 5,000 churches worldwide to implement our sponsorship program. And last year, 95 centers closed, about 1.7 percent of the centers open at the time.</p>
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<blockquote>
<p>The number of child development centers that close each year varies. They close for a variety of reasons, and each case is different. <span id="more-15249"></span></p>
<ul>
<li>A center might close because of unresolved financial integrity issues.</li>
<li>A center might close because the church partner is having difficulty maintaining the staff and volunteers needed to successfully implement the program and no longer wants to continue the program.</li>
<li>A center might close because the church leadership and the center’s staff have relationship conflicts.</li>
<li>Or, on the positive side, a center may close because the church partner no longer needs assistance from Compassion.</li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p>If in the future the church would like to engage in another partnership with us, they can, but they would need to follow the process of <a href="http://blog.compassion.com/child-development-center/">opening a new center</a> at their church.</p>
<p>The Partnership Facilitator (PF), the direct link between our Country Office and our centers, is the person who visits the centers to ensure they are running properly.</p>
<p>If the PF encounters problems at a particular center, he works with the center staff and the Country Office to resolve the issues. He will visit the center to work on development plans to help resolve the issues. He will meet with the pastor and the leadership of the church.</p>
<p>If necessary, the Country Director will meet with the pastor or even with the president of the church’s denomination.</p>
<p>Sometimes, however, the issues may persist, in which case the center will be put on suspension. In some cases, if the problems remain unresolved, the situation may end with the closure of the center.</p>
<p>However, not all closures follow this process. Sometimes a church partner will decide to end our partnership without going through the suspension process, or vice versa, depending on what the circumstances are in that particular case.</p>
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<p>If a center is closed, the Country Office fills out the appropriate forms and sends them to the Global Ministry Center in Colorado as soon as possible. The closure is processed within seven days and is communicated to the appropriate Global Partners so they can share the news with you.</p>
<p>The Country Office also tries to transfer as many sponsored children as they can to another nearby center. However, if this is not possible, the children are <a href="http://blog.compassion.com/when-a-child-leaves-our-sponsorship-program/">“departed” from the program</a>.</p>
<p>It is never easy to hear that a little one you have been praying and caring for is no longer part of our program. But know that we do all that we can to ensure that not only are our programs implemented with the utmost integrity, but also to resolve issues within our centers whenever possible, and ultimately, to transfer children to nearby centers when necessary.</p>
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		<title>Battle of the Blades Update: Valeri Bure Skates On</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Nov 2010 06:01:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Compassion Canada</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After a week off thanks to last week’s special “do-over” episode, a rested Katia Gordeeva and Valeri Bure performed phenomenally. Once again, they received the top score from the judges with a 17.8.<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/cbc-battle-of-the-blades.gif" alt="cbc battle of the blades" width="10" height="10" /> After a week off thanks to last week’s special “do-over” episode, a rested Katia Gordeeva and Valeri Bure performed phenomenally. Once again, they received the top score from the judges with a 17.8.</p>
<p>And the viewers agreed! The duo, who have already found themselves in the bottom pair twice, were declared safe and move on to next week’s round six: the loosely themed “relationships” episode.</p>
<p>With only two weeks left, we’re very excited to see the possibility of Katia and Val making it to the end of the competition and (maybe) win the grand prize. Please keep praying with us — and Canadians, keep watching <a target="_blank" href="http://www.cbc.ca/battle/">Battle of the Blades</a> and voting every Sunday.</p>
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		<title>Poverty is a Lie</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Oct 2010 07:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Todd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["At its very core, poverty is a mindset that goes far beyond the tragic circumstances. It is the cruel, destructive message that gets whispered into the ears of millions by the enemy Satan himself: 'Give up! You don't matter. Nobody cares about you. Look around you: Things are terrible. Always have been, always will be. Think back. Your grandfather was a failure. Your parents couldn't protect or take care of you. Now it's your turn. You, too, will fail. So just give up!'" -- Wess Stafford<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/lie-of-poverty.gif" alt="" width="10" height="10" /> Part of what forms our definition of poverty and our holistic approach to ministry is the recognition that poverty can be an internal condition resulting from an external message of oppression.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;At its very core, poverty is a mindset that goes far beyond the tragic circumstances. It is the cruel, destructive message that gets whispered into the ears of millions by the enemy Satan himself: &#8216;Give up! You don&#8217;t matter. Nobody cares about you. Look around you: Things are terrible. Always have been, always will be. Think back. Your grandfather was a failure. Your parents couldn&#8217;t protect or take care of you. Now it&#8217;s your turn. You, too, will fail. So just give up!&#8217;&#8221; &#8212; Wess Stafford</p></blockquote>
<p>The internal condition of poverty is one of disempowerment, fatalism, hopelessness and lack of initiative. The person in this condition will often be a victim of his circumstances rather than an agent of positive change in his community.</p>
<p>That person&#8217;s extremely low self-view will translate into a low regard for others and likely into damaged relationships. Damaged relationships then reciprocate and reinforce the message of worthlessness.</p>
<p>The belief that &#8220;it won&#8217;t get any better&#8221; may undermine initiative. It may not matter how many opportunities are created, because the effort of striving, risking and capitalizing on those opportunities requires a belief in the possibility of a better future. <span id="more-14110"></span></p>
<p>The majority of individuals in that state are incapable of transformational development. To sum it up in one word, they lack <em>hope</em>, and hope is a major engine of growth and wellness.</p>
<p>The marred identity includes a self-view of powerlessness, of being victim to circumstance, of not only low self-esteem but also a projection of low value on others in the community.</p>
<p>When one sees poverty as having its root in human identity [self-concept], then it profoundly impacts the strategies chosen for development.</p>
<p>When one defines poverty primarily as an internal condition resulting from external devaluing messages, it holds significant implications for poverty-fighting strategies. One must ask:</p>
<ul>
<li>How and when did the internal condition become entrenched?</li>
<li>How can &#8220;the lie&#8221; be exposed and the person freed from its oppression?</li>
<li>Can we prevent it from being heard or being believed?</li>
</ul>
<p>It also becomes clear that when the lie is deeply entrenched in adults it is difficult to reverse. However, intervening early in childhood offers the best opportunity to reverse or prevent the lie from gaining traction in the identity-shaping stages of human development.</p>
<p>There are pivotal moments in human development, <a alt="share your story" href="http://blog.compassion.com/share-your-story/">defining moments</a>, that shape long-term self view and identity. Those pivotal moments must be won by truth and not by &#8220;the lie.&#8221;</p>
<ul>
<li>The lie speaks in abuse; the truth must protect.</li>
<li>The lie speaks by ignoring; the truth must listen.</li>
<li>The lie criticizes; the truth must praise.</li>
<li>The voice of truth must carry throughout the early and most vulnerable stage of human development to break the power of the lie.</li>
</ul>
<p>The statement &#8220;poverty is a lie&#8221; is not meant to deny the reality of poverty. Poverty is absolutely real. Nor is the statement meant to imply that overcoming poverty is as simple as a change of mind. And the statement certainly does not mean to blame the victim in the sense that they were the person who chose to believe the lie.</p>
<p>Rather, the concept conveys the idea that we are surrounded by false messages about who we are &#8212; about our nature, power and value. These messages mask the truth of our identity:</p>
<blockquote><p>We are people made in the image of God, granted unique talents by God and capable of receiving the Holy Spirit. We are dearly loved by God.</p></blockquote>
<p>All of us believe &#8220;the lie&#8221; to some degree, but for the poor it is debilitating.</p>
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		<title>How Do the Poor Describe Poverty?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2010 07:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scott Todd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A survey conducted in Niger in 2002 by the Office of the Prime Minister asked the poor of that country to describe poverty. Their answers included: dependence, marginalization, scarcity, incapacity and restrictions on rights and freedoms.<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/define-poverty.gif" alt="define poverty" width="10" height="10" /> A few weeks ago we asked you, &#8220;<a href="http://blog.compassion.com/define-poverty-what-is-the-definition-of-poverty/">What is the definition of poverty?</a>&#8221;</p>
<p>And then we shared <a href="http://blog.compassion.com/the-meaning-of-poor-as-used-in-the-bible/">our belief</a> that &#8220;references in Scripture to the poor or to poverty should be taken to mean economic poverty,&#8221; which is something that we believe can be eliminated in a generation (<a href="http://blog.compassion.com/the-poor-will-not-always-be-with-you/">The Poor Will Not Always Be With You</a>).</p>
<p>Today, Scott Todd, our Senior Ministry Advisor, continues to explain what forms our definition of poverty so you have the basis for our holistic approach to ministry.<span id="more-14019"></span></p>
<hr />Although the World Bank established the most widely held and understood definition of poverty in strictly economic terms, the World Bank has also described poverty as follows:</p>
<blockquote><p>Poverty is hunger. Poverty is lack of shelter. Poverty is being sick and not being able to see a doctor. Poverty is not having access to school and not knowing how to read. Poverty is not having a job, is fear for the future, living one day at a time. Poverty is losing a child to illness brought about by unclean water. Poverty is powerlessness, lack of representation and freedom.</p></blockquote>
<p>This description of poverty includes lack of access to social services, &#8220;fear for the future,&#8221; &#8220;powerlessness&#8221; and &#8220;lack of representation.&#8221; This description shows a broadening of the World Bank&#8217;s understanding of poverty, but it does not replace or contradict its own $1.25 per day standard for extreme poverty.</p>
<p>The World Bank has also developed indicators to assess non-income dimensions of poverty. These indicators include education, health, access to social services, vulnerability, social exclusion, and access to social capital.</p>
<p>During the mid to late 1990s, Robert Chambers, research associate at the Institute of Development Studies at the University of Sussex, and others questioned the definitions of poverty and asked who should determine those definitions. The argument was that the poor themselves should define poverty.</p>
<p><strong>How Do the Poor Describe Poverty?</strong><!--more--></p>
<p>A survey conducted in Niger in 2002 by the Office of the Prime Minister asked the poor of that country to describe poverty. Their answers provided the following:</p>
<ul>
<li><em>Dependence</em> was mentioned by 40 percent of the respondents, with some noting that a poor person always had to &#8220;seek out others&#8221; or to &#8220;work for somebody else.&#8221;</li>
<li><em>Marginalization</em> was noted by 37 percent, who defined a poor person as one who was &#8220;alone,&#8221; had &#8220;no support,&#8221; did &#8220;not feel involved in anything,&#8221; or was &#8220;never consulted.&#8221;</li>
<li><em>Scarcity</em> was included in the poverty definitions of 36 percent, who used statements such as having &#8220;nothing to eat,&#8221; a &#8220;lack of means to meet clothing and financial needs,&#8221; a &#8220;lack of food, livestock and money,&#8221; and &#8220;having nothing to sell.&#8221;</li>
<li><em>Restrictions on rights and freedoms</em> were associated with poverty by 26 percent of the respondents, who stated that &#8220;a poor person is someone who does not have the right to speak out&#8221; or &#8220;someone who will never win a case or litigation against someone else.&#8221;</li>
<li><em>Incapacity</em> was mentioned in connection with poverty by 21 percent, including the incapacity to make decision, to feed or clothe oneself, or to act on one&#8217;s own initiative.</li>
</ul>
<p>Only 36 percent of the poor in this survey described poverty in terms of material lack [scarcity]. Here, the poor described the experience of poverty primarily in terms of suffering relationships and lack of belonging, dignity and freedom. Similar descriptions were found in a major World Bank study published in 2000, <em>Voices of the poor: Can anyone hear us?</em></p>
<p>The poor describe poverty in terms of suffering relationships. Relationships are central to a person&#8217;s belonging, identity, affirmation and other socio-emotional needs.</p>
<p>The relational fabric of a person is his or her means for navigating social norms, accessing resources and mobilizing the skills of others toward common goals. &#8220;Whom you know&#8221; matters a great deal in any context, including that of a poor man [or woman] navigating his way out of poverty.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2010 07:44:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Edwin Estioko</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Sponsorship is not about the money you give but about the lives and relationships you build.” This is not just a clever thing to say. It’s a profound statement that I learned from the children themselves. I’ve seen that our children are more concerned about building their relationship with you than the help they get.<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/relationship-building.gif" alt="relationship building" width="10" height="10" /> Before Compassion Philippines hired Tours and Visits Specialists, I used to handle Sponsor Tours. I did my best to take good care of the visiting sponsors. I talked about my country, Filipino children and how Compassion operates here.</p>
<p>I had three favorite lines that I shared with sponsors. The first two were, “You are our heroes,” and “Thanks for making Filipino children happy.”</p>
<p>I meant those words. I am truly amazed that people from miles away share their lives with children living in obscure, squalid squatter colonies in the Philippines.</p>
<p>Then, the third line, “Sponsorship is not about the money you give but about the lives and relationships you build.”</p>
<p>This was not just a clever thing to say. It’s a profound statement that I learned from the children themselves. I’ve seen that our children are more concerned about building their relationship with you than the help they get.<span id="more-13931"></span></p>
<blockquote><p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-13939" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/Rona-Villegas.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="325" />“I did not receive any reply letters from my first two sponsors. I felt sad. It’s as though I was writing to a fictitious person, an imaginary friend. So just think how happy I was when I received my first reply letter from my third and present sponsor.</p>
<p>&#8220;I can’t explain how excited I was that time. It’s not only me who gets excited whenever I receive a letter from my sponsor, my mom, too. And I am so happy because in every letter I received, stickers with verses in it were also enclosed.</p>
<p>&#8220;Other than reading their letters, I get to know them well, too, by looking at the pictures they send me. The feeling of being connected to a part of your family far from you makes you feel more loved.</p>
<p>&#8220;Communication is really a big thing in strengthening the bond that binds a sponsor and a child together.</p>
<p>&#8220;The best types of letters from sponsors are the ones that tell something about themselves and their lives. It would be better if the sponsors can tell a bit more about themselves. A brief summary of his/her life means a lot to the sponsored child.</p>
<p>&#8220;It can be as simple as writing what kind of place they live in, what kind of work they have, what they do in their free time and even their favorite stuff. It would be nice if children learn about their sponsors from other countries or other backgrounds and see how different, or surprisingly familiar, their lives, issues and dreams are.</p>
<p>&#8220;Acknowledging the achievements that the child has shared can also be of help in building a better relationship. In this way, the sponsor could learn more about the interests of the child and would give deeper support. Praises will always make one feel good.</p>
<p>&#8220;Although the children are thankful for the blessings they are receiving, it is inevitable for the sponsored children to be curious about how their sponsors can manage to sustain themselves, and at the same time lend their hands to those who are far away from their country. In this way, by sharing, the &#8216;stranger&#8217; barrier between sponsor and sponsored child will slowly disappear, although the two have not yet met.</p>
<p>&#8220;And of course, inspirational and enlightening words coming from sponsors would definitely contribute greatly to the sponsored child. By sharing their relationship with Jesus Christ and sharing their prayer requests, sponsors develop themselves and their children spiritually. Words from a sponsor, despite the physical absence, can be a source of encouragement and inspiration for the sponsored child to be a better instrument for God.</p>
<p>&#8220;Indeed, response letters from our sponsors really bring a feeling of gladness to us.” &#8212; Rona</p></blockquote>
<p>I went to CCWI-Frisco Student Center, and asked many sponsored kids this question: “How can your sponsor be a better sponsor?”</p>
<p>There were some children who hoped for more gifts, but I was not surprised that most of the children talked about your letters and knowing you more.</p>
<p>Here are some of their responses.</p>
<blockquote><p>“I want my sponsor to write me always and occasionally send some greeting cards. I want to know about his family, what his home looks like, and what his country looks like. I also want to know how he met his wife and about their baby.” &#8212; Zarrah</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I love it that my sponsor never forgets to write me letters. I know he always thinks about me. I&#8217;d like it if he would send a picture of himself and his family. I want to know what they look like.” &#8212; Raffy</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“What I really love about my sponsor is that she is very friendly and always writes about what is going on in her life. I would like my sponsor to write me more about her future plans, hobbies, and what she does during her free time. I hope she will never forget to write me and pray for me.” &#8212; Pauline</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I hope that my sponsor can come visit so I can personally ask him how he is doing. I want to talk to him in person. I will tell him many things about the Philippines.” &#8212; Michaelangelo</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I really, really hope my sponsors will come visit me. I will cook my special spaghetti for them, as well as chicken adobo.” &#8212; Anjanette</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“It captures my interest a lot whenever he tells stories about his wife who is a Filipina. I’m excited to know when they could have a baby.” &#8212; Jhemaica</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“What I like most about everything she writes is how she tells me to walk on God’s path. I also like it when she praises my talent, my personality and everything I do is a blessing to her. She writes mostly about her work in a camp and how she spends her time with her husband. One thing I’m curious about my sponsor is if she’s pregnant because she’s been married for almost two years now and I still haven’t read in her letters of them having a baby.&#8221; &#8212; Hallelujah</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I appreciate it whenever she writes her experiences in her country. She even tells me her stories about God that make me feel inspired. I just want to know how she would react if I flunked in one of my subjects at school. What is she going to tell me if ever that would happen? Sounds funny but I am so curious to know.” &#8212; Ryann</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;‘I am truly blessed by God. That’s what my sponsor tells me whenever I receive her letters. My sponsor and I often talk about our latest activities. She even shares to me the activities of her children. I am very much eager to know why she chose to sponsor a Filipino child instead of children from other countries.” &#8212; Precious</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I can feel the love and care whenever I read the letter from my sponsor. I feel glad when she tells me that she is really proud of me. She gives me inspiration when she shares about how God has helped her to overcome her hardships. I want to know more about her family especially about her sibling who she mentioned once in her letter.” &#8212; Christine</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I like it when my sponsors tell me that I’ve become an amazing man now. And they are very encouraged because they said that I’ve grown up just like the person they thought I would become. They also serve as my inspiration especially every time I read in their letters the ways God has helped them in all their circumstances in life. They always tell me to pray to God, most especially in time of hardships because God is always ready to help. I want to know why they wanted to sponsor a child.” &#8212; Jake</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I feel motivated when my sponsor tells in her letter that she is proud of my achievements. I also feel happy when she says that I am beautiful. She often tells me stories about her grandchildren. She tells me how naughty they are. She loves her grandchildren so much. One thing I want to know is why she chose me to be her sponsored child.” &#8212; Jackielyn</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I am inspired by the letters my sponsor sends me. He often tells me stories of God’s greatness to Him. He also tells me about his family and the things he likes to do. I want to know the qualities of a sponsored child he looked for when he chose me to be his sponsored child.” &#8212; Precious</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“My sponsor always sends me greetings and holiday cards. It feels like I am physically with them during special occasions when I actually am not. She really loves me and shows care for me in each of her letters. I am curious to know how it feels to live in their country. Is it like also here in the Philippines?” &#8212; Christopher</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“My sponsor likes to write her life experiences even in her young age. I came to the extent that I become interested to learn how to swim because her sport is swimming and she often shares to me how she enjoys doing it. I am curious to know the kind of school she goes to. I even want to know if we have the same subjects at school.” &#8212; Kristine</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I enjoy reading my sponsor’s letters because I really feel that I am a part of their family. I want them to come visit me so that I can finally meet them and personally thank them up close and tell them how I am so grateful that they are my sponsors.” &#8212; Brenlyn</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>“I know my sponsors are always praying for me. They always pray for my health. I just recovered from tuberculosis. I just hope that they will write more often. I really love them.” &#8212; Maricor</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I really want to know something about my sponsor and how she is doing in life. I am thankful that I just know that she is there supporting me and my studies.” &#8212; Noemi</p></blockquote>
<p>Remember my third-favorite statement: “Sponsorship is not about the money you give but about the lives and relationships you build.”</p>
<p>I asked a formerly sponsored child who can write well the same question, “How can your sponsor be a better sponsor?”</p>
<p>She is Rachel Valenzuela. She just graduated from the Child Sponsorship Program and is now a schoolteacher. This is what she answered.</p>
<blockquote><p>According to Rick Warren, the best use of life is love. I personally witnessed how sponsors best used their lives by extending their love to the children, including me. However, being sponsors is not enough and it will never represent the totality of the sponsorship because there is still the need to express love through time.</p>
<p>When they accepted the responsibility as sponsors, it is a must to set a time for letter writing. It is through this [letter writing] that the sponsored children will be updated about them. It is through this effort that children will know that they are greatly appreciated in terms of stories, accomplishments and so on. Remember, children are some of the best story-tellers.</p>
<p>So, I challenge [the sponsors] to reply immediately after receiving their letters because such responses mean a lot to [the children]. I was once a kid so I knew the feeling of patiently waiting for replies.</p>
<p>I discourage [the sponsors] to discuss busyness in their letters because it may affect what the children would think. Talk about what the sponsored children wrote in their recent letters because this will motivate the children to share their wonderful experiences and it will assure them that their sponsors do read their letters.</p>
<p>Send recent pictures whether being asked or not because pictures do excite children to know more about their sponsors.</p>
<p>Improve penmanship because this may affect the feeling of the children upon receiving their letters.</p>
<p>Always send spiritual icons to the children because they view sponsors as God-given gifts. They put so much trust, respect, and admiration in their sponsors. Thus, they expect the sponsors to include amazing things on how God changes them every moment of their lives. Giving memory verses from the Bible will help children to understand what sponsors like to share with their spiritual involvements and convictions.</p>
<p>Simply put, sponsors will become better sponsors if they will take on extended responsibilities. Becoming better is a process; it will never be instant. This is not to belittle sponsors but to simply allow them to know any possible gaps they have had in the past, and inform them about the important points to consider in expressing their love to their chosen children.</p></blockquote>
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		<dc:creator>Stephan Archer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being involved with Compassion, both as an employee and as a sponsor, has allowed me — and sometimes forced me — to consider things that I used to not give a whole lot of attention to. One of those things garnering more of my attention lately is the many blessings God has given me. It’s&#8230;<p><a href="https://www.compassion.com/Account/login.htm">My Account</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/default.htm?referer=96738">Sponsor a Child</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/contribution/csp/default.htm?referer=96738">Help Babies and Moms</a> l <a href="http://www.compassion.com/where-we-work/crisis-updates.htm">Crisis Updates</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img border="0" src="http://blog.compassion.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/more-precious-than-gold.gif" alt="More precious than gold" width="10" height="10" /> Being involved with Compassion, both as an employee and as a sponsor, has allowed me — and sometimes forced me — to consider things that I used to not give a whole lot of attention to. </p>
<p>One of those things garnering more of my attention lately is the many blessings God has given me.  </p>
<p>It’s not that I’ve never thought about my blessings before. I’m very thankful for everything God’s given me — family, friends, food, shelter, clothing — not to mention the many “extras” that we as American Christians get to enjoy.   </p>
<p>Working at a ministry, however, has helped me to focus on the greatest blessing — other than the blessing of His Son — God has given all of us. That blessing is people.</p>
<p>Ministry is first and foremost about people. It’s about building relationships that will last an eternity. It’s about sharing with people the good news about the ultimate relationship with their Savior.</p>
<p>I, like most people, have no problem thinking about the family I come home to everyday as a precious blessing from God, but here is where my time with Compassion has challenged me.</p>
<p>My family isn’t just my wife and two kids anymore. My family now also includes my sponsored child, Kimberly, who lives in Guatemala.  </p>
<p>Kimberly may have started out as a monthly “feel good” payment, but many letters, pictures and prayers later, she has become — like family — more precious than gold.  </p>
<p>There are always competing items in any household budget, but Kimberly, like the rest of my family, has no competition. She has, for me, become as important as putting food on the table for my family.</p>
<p>Although balancing a budget is never easy, many are facing even more difficult choices as jobs are being lost across the country. Yet those who find themselves in difficult situations like this are still making the decision to invest in people and not give up on their relationships.</p>
<p><span class=hdynlink onmouseover="this.style.color='#9E3039'" onmouseout="this.style.color='#0039A6'" onclick="window.open('http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2009/may/15.22.html','new');">This article, <em>The Not-for-Profit Surge</em></span>, in Christianity Today talks about one widow’s decision to continue sponsoring three Compassion-assisted children in these difficult financial times. It also talks about how even in tough times, Compassion is doing better than most people would expect. Praise God.</p>
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