Wess Stafford Goes to Washington

This is the story of how our beloved president, Wess Stafford, traveled to Washington D.C., rubbed shoulders with the mighty and powerful and still managed to return home the same humble man that we adore.

man hugging small child as two people look on in the background

Take it away, Wess.

So where to start . . . ? The first thing that surprised me about visiting the White House was how little security I had to go through to get in. It was easier than boarding a United flight — I didn’t even have to take off my shoes! (Actually, I’m sure they did their homework in advance.) It was really amazing though to just walk freely through the hall to the East Room, past all the famous pictures — just like you see it on TV.

After waiting at the door for my arrival to be “announced” (I was known as “Dr. Stafford” for the evening.), I noticed that everyone who entered after me all had titles of “The Honorable” and “His Excellency” and such.

It seemed like most of the other guests were accustomed to this kind of formal event, and I was feeling pretty out of place, until I noticed another equally-miserable looking fellow across the room. I introduced myself to him and was thrilled to learn that our organizations had a lot it common. We had a nice, lengthy conversation, and when I finally turned my attention back to the room I realized that it was now full and that President Bush himself had arrived. It was so strange to be right there in the same room with him!

Next, each of the guests was announced again as we individually entered a private room with President and Mrs. Bush and President and Mrs. Kufour for a brief visit and a photo. I wish I had given more thought to what I would say to each of them, but I kind of had to wing it.

The first person in the line was President Bush. I thanked him for his leadership and said, “I don’t know if you know this or not, Sir, but your dad sponsored a little boy from the Philippines with Compassion. And he wasn’t just a sponsor, he was a good sponsor — he wrote letters in his own hand to his sponsored child.

Of course, there were special safety concerns with this sponsorship. For instance, if the wrong people learned that a former President of the United States was sponsoring this little guy, he may have been kidnapped and held for ransom. So we asked your dad to not to mention his ‘career history’ in his letters. This led to some interesting correspondence.

In one letter he included a photo of his little dog and told the child ‘she knows lots of famous people.’ In another letter, after you became President, he mentioned that he would be spending Christmas with his son, ‘who lives in a big white house.’”

As I went down the line I thanked Laura Bush for being such a champion of children. I told President Kufour that, although we’ve only been in the country of Ghana for a few years, we have chosen to place our West Africa Area Office there because of the country’s stability.

I also told him that our staff in Ghana have told me how loved he is by his people and that they would elect him for another term if they could. I thanked him for demonstrating that power can change hands in Africa with dignity and grace.

Next, I spoke with Theresa Kufour. I had learned that she had been a midwife, and I thanked her for all she had done to love and care for children. After the photo was taken and I was beginning to leave the room, I was surprised to hear President Bush call out after me.

He said, “I know I’ve just met you this evening Doc, but I love your heart!” Now, he may have said that to everyone that evening, but it sure meant a lot to me!

After the photos were taken we made our way to the Lincoln State Room, walking past a huge orchestra along the way!

This was a dinner like none I’ve ever attended. There were five forks in the place setting. (Thankfully I remembered something about starting from the outside and working in toward the plate!) There were more goblets and glasses than I knew what to do with, and a huge, elaborately rimmed dinner plate.

The plates must have been 18 inches across. They were huge — too big to fit in my tux jacket. I know, because I tried! 🙂

From where I was seated, I could look straight ahead and all at one time see President Bush, Vice President Cheney and Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice. It was just surreal to be looking at all those famous faces — I felt like I must be in a wax museum!

During dinner I was seated next to a delightful young lady named Elizabeth. I noticed that the last name on her name badge said “Cheney,” but I decided not to bring that up unless she did.

It turns out that she studied Political Science at The Colorado College in Colorado Springs and has traveled to Africa through her former work with the U.S. Agency for International Development. So we had a lot to talk about with our shared connections to both Colorado Springs and Africa. In fact, I almost got her in trouble by causing her to laugh hysterically just as President Bush was ready to begin his speech!

After both leaders had given brief talks, President Bush announced that he had a surprise for us and asked us to join him in the Rose Garden. (As we were leaving the Lincoln State Room I had the opportunity to speak briefly with Condoleezza Rice and tell her how much I appreciated her courageous leadership during difficult times. I was surprised by how petite she is in real life and by how genuinely engaged she was in our conversation.)

When we arrived in the Rose Garden — it was the most perfect, calm evening that you can imagine with the smell of roses in the air — we were treated to a performance by the cast of “The Lion King.” Then as I was leaving the Rose Garden, I felt a tug on my sleeve and turned to find my friend from dinner saying “I’ve got to introduce you to my dad!” So, Elizabeth took me directly to Dick Cheney and told him that I’m from Colorado Springs, and so on. Can you imagine?! What an evening!

But there is one more thing that I think you’ll be interested in hearing.

After I returned to my hotel, I decided to take a stroll to a convenience store around the corner. (I like to have milk and cookies before bed . . . even after the amazing food that was served at the White House!)

As I was walking I heard a voice ask, “Are you having a nice evening?” When I turned to see who was speaking to me, I saw a young homeless man standing there. I answered, “Yeah . . . I’m actually having a pretty amazing evening!” We spoke for quite awhile, and he told me about his situation — the mistakes he knew he’d made in his life and his future dreams. I shared with him that God can redeem anything and had an opportunity to pray with him before we parted ways. When I returned to my hotel room I was up for hours trying to process all that had happened that evening. I was just overwhelmed by God’s goodness.

In a matter of hours I went from the company of powerful world leaders, in whom I could sense God’s presence, to this young man on the street, where I also distinctly saw the spark of God. It was such an amazing contrast, yet such a unifying experience. We all have the same value to God, and He loves us all equally, no matter what our circumstances are. What an awesome God we serve!”

How did this all come about?

Wess was as surprised as the rest of us to hear that he’d been invited to a state dinner at the White House. He says he was shocked to arrive in Washington D.C. and learn that he was supposed to attend a state dinner and not a “steak” dinner. It’s a good thing he has a smart assistant who insisted he squeeze this trip into his schedule and twisted his arm to rent a tux. 🙂

This was the sixth (and most likely the last) state dinner hosted by President Bush. The dinner was held to honor Ghanaian President John Kufour and his wife, Theresa, and to celebrate the strong relationship between the two leaders, which has been solidified by Ghana’s commitment to free-market economics and democracy and President Bush’s support of U.S. aid to Africa.

Compassion has been ministering to children in Africa for decades and began working in Ghana in 2004.

President Bush described his dinner guests as “compassionate people” who care about Africa’s future. We’re assuming that Wess was honored with this invitation through a White House staffer’s diligent research of organizations that are making a positive impact in Ghana.

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  1. Sara Castle January 18, 2015

    I am asking about what happens exactly to the money i send to my child . I though that 8 percent of it went to the organization and then the rest was given to the child and his family . I did not know it was being used to train ministers or others . I want this money to go directly to my child i sponsor . I do not really trust if it is going to provide for other than the exact needs of the child . I know it helps them to go to school but how do i know they are going to school . .I need more information here . I only looked into this because i had to change my credit card information and then began to look at where the money is going . I also am a little hesitant because these post are very outdated and i see no recent postings .. I would like to know why it is so long ago and no post recently . thank you Sara Castle

    1. Susan Sayler January 20, 2015


      We would be happy to speak with you at length and tell you exactly where your money is going. We believe that you are completely entitled to that. You are always welcome to call 800-336-7676.

      We partner with local Christian churches all around the world to administer our program. This means that your support helps the local church provide for the needs of your child in a culturally appropriate way.

      We have made a commitment that 80% (usually it is more) will always go towards programs that benefit your child specifically. This means that no more than 20% ever goes towards overhead costs. Our organization has been evaluated and given a four star rating from the watchdog organization, Charity Navigators, for several years in a row.

      Your sponsorship allows the staff of Samaeri Student Center to provide your sponsored child with Bible studies, tutoring, medical checkups, character building programs, special celebrations, nutritious food, reading and writing classes and sports. The center staff will also provide meetings and seminars for the parents or guardians of your sponsored child on parenting and other relevant topics. Our program looks much like an after-school program and children Des’ age attend the program activities about six hours each week. The children attend school outside of the program but we will supply assistance to attend school, if needed. They receive a meal of rice, meat, vegetables, and fruit as well as a snack when they attend.

      You are right. We have had this blog for several years so some posts are quite old. However, if you click on the Blog Home, you will be able to see some more recent posts.

      Please do not hesitate to let us know if you have any further questions or concerns.

  2. Edith November 19, 2010

    Im reading the story of Dr Wess two years down the line and its so real like it happened yesterday. Just want to say that i truly appreciate your great sense of humor and simplicity. You fulfilled the scripture that says…when you see a diligent man…he will stand before kings…paraphrased.
    I’m just going through the compassion website and wondering why Compassion Int is not in Nigeria, Please come over to our “macedonia” God bless.

  3. mike maguire October 2, 2008

    Recently, when in Colo springs, my wife and I were honored to visit briefly with Dr. Stafford.
    When in his office, we had the same feeling of awe that he had at the White House.
    We felt as if we were in the presense of greatness….and we were.
    He made us feel very comfortable and I was truely touched by his humbleness, sincerity and genuine heart.

  4. Sarah September 30, 2008

    Wow! I can’t believe Bush Sr. sponsored a child. That is so great!

  5. Diantha September 30, 2008

    Wow ,

    What a grat story !What nice to learn about George Bush SR sponsored a child .
    It must have been a great experience .

  6. Juli Jarvis September 29, 2008

    Thanks so much for sharing this great story! I was also thrilled to learn George, Sr., sponsored a child! I’m not surprised, actually. I’m so glad you got to represent Compassion (for all of us) in this way!

  7. Jill Foley September 29, 2008

    Wow…what a great story for all of us to hear! Thank you for sharing it with us.

  8. Beth Ingersoll September 29, 2008

    I would have loved to be a fly on those walls!

  9. Vicki Small September 29, 2008

    Read this first thing this morning and loved it. I doubt any of us knew that the first President Bush sponsored a child through Compassion (except maybe whoever told him about CI!). I love the way he chose his words!

    I’m so proud of Wess and the recognition he is getting–and the attention being drawn to Compassion, as a result. I can’t imagine that anyone could meet him and listen to him for three minutes, and not hear his heart!

  10. compassion dave September 29, 2008

    Wess (if you are reading), you are an encouragement to me. The idea that after an evening spent with the President of the United States and other heads of state, you would might notice a homeless man and then take the time to pray with him moves me spiritually. And while it is true I am a follower of Christ Jesus, in one sense I am a follower of you as well, as your Christian walk positions you miles ahead of me on that narrow path of Christian faith.

  11. Abbie H September 29, 2008

    I almost didn’t come over to read this blog post because I avoid anything remotely political. My head starts spinning and I get a headache just thinking about politics. BUT I sure am glad that I did! What a great post-such a nice read especially after all the lies and bad mouthin’ going on right now.

  12. Michael Van Schooneveld September 29, 2008

    It is sadly true how much negative news, which sells, dominates the media. Now that I know more about Africa, I’m amazed at how little I ever heard about it before now. The truth is, the world still looks down on Africa and undervalues it or just sees it as a disaster zone. A lot of people would read about the state dinner and think “Ghana? Who cares about Ghana? Why is the president wasting his time this late in his presidency having dinners with them?” I just hope that whoever becomes president next will continue to support President Bush’s powerful focus on Africa. It’s another unpopular war that costs a lot of money and seems very difficult, almost impossible, to win. It would be so easy for interest in Africa to flag, given the far-off nature of the battlefield and the slow progress and our own financial pressures at home. It’s hard to have ongoing hope in the face of such a struggle. It’s so encouraging that Wess got to visit the White House. I hope he gets to go again sometime when the next administration is in. Just being around people like him is a wake up call and can inspire people to greater compassion. Fingers crossed!

  13. Monica Brand September 29, 2008

    What a fun read! I had no idea about Bush Sr. either.

    Since Dr. Stafford mentioned a midwife, I’m going to recommend a book I read recently: Monique and the Mango Rains by Kris Holloway. As an American with limited knowledge of African culture, midwives, and the health system there, it was a fascinating read.

    (Sorry if that sounds spammy! I really did like the book and thought other CI folks would too).

  14. Steve K. September 29, 2008

    As an unfortunate follower of politics, this is the best story I have read or heard in quite a long time. In a time where negativity moves the poll numbers, more than being positive does, it’s nice to hear the good that is still happening.

    Network and cable news would never cover such an important story.

  15. Sarah September 29, 2008

    Thanks for sharing this great experience!

  16. Lisa Miles September 29, 2008

    What a fascinating post! I had no idea Bush Sr. was a Compassion sponsor. Amazing. I love that.

    I’m thrilled to hear that Wess Stafford was acknowledged in this way. I think it’s well deserved.

    I lived in D.C. for many years and worked right around the corner from the White House, but I never had the opportunity to spend any time there, other than the typical tour. What a lucky duck Wess is for getting to attend a state dinner!!!

    The current President Bush has certainly done a lot for Africa and for AIDS relief. I wish more people recognized how much he really has done in that area.

    Here’s a link to a great article:


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