Write Your Child the Second Friday of Every Month

letter writing club Members of the Virtual Child Sponsorship Letter Writing Night group in OurCompassion have committed to write letters to their children on the second Friday of each month. The group provides letter-writing ideas and/or craft projects to use as a theme when writing.

Karla and June, El Salvador 2005

Today’s post is written by June Gauss, the founder of the group. June has been a sponsor since 2002 and an advocate since 2008. She sponsors three girls (Karla in El Salvador, Jeeva in India and Yenny in the Dominican Republic) and corresponds with one boy (Wander in the Dominican Republic).

In 2005, I took my first sponsor tour to El Salvador. During that week, I met many wonderful children but two boys stood out. One was sponsored and one was not. Both boys appeared very sad.

It seemed odd to me that the sponsored boy was sad. I learned that he was happy he was sponsored but was also sad because he had not received any letters from his sponsor.

Through a translator, the boy told me that he just wanted to know about his new family, which made me realize how important our letters are to our children really are. I committed to write my child more frequently and not just respond to her letters.

I returned to El Salvador with Compassion in 2008. During the trip, I visited the home of two teenage sisters, Ruth and Flabia.

When I was in their home, the girls showed me their letters. Ruth, all smiles, proudly showed me her stack of letters and pictures. Flabia had a look of sadness on her face. She had only received one letter from her sponsor.

Flabia was thankful for her sponsor and the extra money the sponsor frequently sent, but she really wanted to hear from her sponsor, to know her and have a relationship with her. It was written all over her face how much she wanted this.

Those young ladies had such beautiful spirits about them. I wished I could tell Flabia’s sponsor how beautiful her child is and how she was missing out on a beautiful relationship with this young lady.

I don’t think that many of us (sponsors) grasp how much our letters really mean to our children. I know I didn’t, until I experienced firsthand the sadness that lack of letters creates.

When I returned home from my second trip, I made myself accountable for my correspondence to my child. I organized all my letters from Karla in a three-ring binder and now any time I write her, I make a copy of the letter and place it in the binder. I also scan each craft I make so I have a record of everything I have sent to Karla.

Through my experiences, the idea of setting a specific day each month to write my child started to take shape. Then I thought that maybe other sponsors would like to join me at my house to sit down together and write our children.

In May 2009, I hosted the first letter-writing night in my home. Months went by with only a small number attending, and I tried to think of other sponsors I could invite to join us.

I remembered a group I had joined on OurCompassion. It was for sponsors who lived in my area. When I posted an invitation to the letter-writing event at my house, I ended up sending it to all my friends on OurCompassion by mistake.

I received responses from those who lived in other states wishing they lived in my area so they could participate. That made me think. What about a virtual group?

So I asked. And in February of this year the Virtual Child Sponsorship Letter Writing group began.

For the past few months, I have been discussing with God my disappointment with the size of the attendance in my home. I wanted to reach more people but it seemed as though my attempts were unsuccessful.

Last month, out of the blue, I received an e-mail from Compassion saying they liked the virtual letter-writing group idea, and they offered me a chance to invite you to join us. This is only by the hand of God!

God has spoken to my heart through this — about how He will do abundantly more than what I ask or imagine, if I am obedient to the desires He puts on my heart.

I had been feeling unused, that I was being wasted. He said to me, “I do not waste anything I create. I will not waste you, June. Do you see!?”

My initial desire was to have a consistent group of five to eight people coming to my home each month. But God made it more — a much larger group of people, from all over the world, coming together every second Friday of the month to write letters to their children.

Will you join us this Friday, Sept. 10? Please leave a comment if you plan to. I’m curious to know where everyone is from.

UPDATE, March 24, 2014: The OurCompassion community is closing its doors on June 30, 2014. New account creation has been disabled, and the Second Friday Letter Writing club activities have been moved to Pinterest.

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  1. John Piedilato April 29, 2015

    I am now retired from the teaching profession and I agree with all of those who have written about writing a letter once a month on the second Friday of each month. I wrote my sponsor today and plan on writing on the 2nd Friday beginning this September. Does anyone know who to write to in order to get photos and written information about the land where my sponsored child lives?

    1. Emily Vanhoutan
      Emily Vanhoutan April 29, 2015

      Hi John! That’s so great; thank you for investing your life into education children and for writing your sponsored child! I see you sponsor Catherine in Tanzania. If you log in to your My Account on http://www.compassion.com you can click on ‘My Sponsorships’ and scroll down to where it says, ‘Learn more about Catherine.’ Here, you can use the variety of tabs to learn about her community and center. We also have information about each of our countries on our website under, ‘Where We Work’.

      In regards to pictures, have you heard about our new mobile app? . If you log into your My Account from your smart phone, you can view pictures of Catherine’s center wherever you’re at! :) IF you have any specific questions, feel free to email us at ciinfo@us.ci.org and we’re happy to answer them for you! In the meantime, feel free to also ask Catherine questions you might have about her country. We learn so much from our children about their communities and culture. Have fun!

      1. john piedilato May 8, 2015

        Dear Emily, thank you for the help!

  2. Martha November 28, 2014

    This is a great idea, and a reminder to me to make it a habit to write Ana, my sponsored child. It has been such a blessing to us to see her grow from 4 years old to now 16 years old. I have not written near enough. This will serve as my reminder.

  3. Terri February 1, 2014

    This blog provided an “update” to its page: Due to changes to the Our Compassion community platform, the online letter-writing party group is no longer available. However, letter-writing is a meaningful form of communication and literacy. Ruby Payne states that “the driving forces for people living in poverty are survival, relationships, and entertainment.” The children mentioned in this blog are children of poverty. One of the sponsored boys in El Salvador was happy he was sponsored but was also sad because he had not heard from his sponsor. This is an example of the relationship “piece” that children of poverty need. “The boy said that he just wanted to know about his new family.” Letter-writing is great way of providing this connection that these boys and other children of poverty need. Ruth is full of smiles because her family has remained in constant connect with her so she has that much needed relationship connection and Flabia does not having received only one letter from her sponsor. The money the sponsor sent to Flabia could not take the place of a relationship with the sponsor. These letters are so very important to the children because they so desperately need the relationships

  4. Nancy November 11, 2013

    Great commitment to trying to provide a little happiness to unfortunate children that have no control over there fate. Truly exceptional effort!

  5. Arif August 28, 2013

    Thanks for the article and the ideas presented. I just scheduled a calender reminder to remind me every 2nd friday of the month to take care of this.

    Again, thank you,


  6. meme7 June 13, 2013

    I was so excited to see this idea and I have been trying to write every week even before reading this blog. I am wondering how I can join in, and also I would like craft ideas. I didn’t realize I could send things to our kids. Please inform me on how I can go about doing this. I loved hearing from our sponsored children and their letters are displayed on my bulletin board for everyone to see! Thanks for all everyone is doing for these precious children, GOD bless you

  7. Judy Moyer March 26, 2013

    I enjoy hearing from my sponsored child also…I would like to get more frequent letters…with answers to some things I write…to know that she is understanding them or remembering what I write.

    1. Kim March 27, 2013

      Judy, I find that if I number my questions, they seem much more likely to be answered. Sometimes I’ll highlight the two or three questions.

  8. june December 17, 2012

    Hi Sondra!
    Although the “group” no longer exists, I still post a monthly letter writing idea prior to the second friday of the month under general discussions. go under sponsor letters and gifts. look for december idea second friday letter writing night and i also posted for january. hope you can find these ideas. june

  9. Sondra Lane December 16, 2012

    Does this letter writing night hing still exist?

    1. Jacquie Parella December 17, 2012

      Hi Sondra! With the changes made to OurCompassion, the online letter-writing party group is no longer available. There are several letter writing discussions you can join in OurCompassion though! You can check them out here: http://ourcompassion.org/general_discussions/life_sponsor/f/13.aspx

  10. nebuchudnessar September 30, 2012

    Fabulous idea!
    I must start doing this!
    I write, sporadically, but reasonably often, but this will make them more regular :)

  11. Domingo Savageau July 18, 2012

    thank you for helpful guidelines and just very good info

  12. holly June 12, 2012

    Thank you so much Ann and Kim. I do want to visit Rwanda next year. I’ve looked into it but will have to get a hold of Compassion for details or suggestions on flights and where to stay. And thank you for mentioning I can’t sponsor family members. I was wanting to sponsor all of her siblings if I could. God has blessed me and im so excited to be a blessing to others and share my blessings with them. God has been so good. I can’t wait for our relationship to grow between me and her family. And Kim thank you so much. You answered questions I have Googled but couldn’t find.

  13. Holly June 12, 2012

    I was wondering if anyone sponsered in Rwanda? I would like to know how long it took them to send and received letters because I read everywhere is different. Also I would like to know if a money gift takes the same time to receive as a letter. I started sponsoring on may 25 or 26th and sent a birthday gift because her birthday was in June and I was hoping she would receive it in time.

    1. ann June 12, 2012

      I sponsor a cute little boy in Rwanda. I started sponsoring him last year August. So far, I have received only 3 letters from him. I was told that it takes at least 3 months for us to receive letters from them and vice versa. CI said that it is best to send your birthday gift 3 months in advance so your sponsor child can receive it in time. I also sponsor a little boy in the Philippines and I always receive his letter 3 months past the date on his letter. If you ever think of visiting your sponsored child in Rwanda, I say, go for it. I just got back from a tour trip and it was worth it, plus Rwanda is beautiful!!!

    2. Kim June 12, 2012

      Hi, Holly! Yes, I sponsor three girls in Rwanda. It takes approximately 7 weeks to receive letters either way. I always date my letters and now two of my older girls do, too. The fastest I’ve ever received a letter has been six weeks and the longest was 9 weeks, but the average is 7 weeks and all of my girls live in different areas of Rwanda. So, I seriously doubt that your girl received your money gift by her birthday, but it may surprise you to know that it will mean just as much when she does get it. I just returned from visiting my girls – it was my first trip to Africa – and learned that the gifts I have sent are the only gifts they ever received in their lives! Never a birthday or Christmas gift – and that’s pretty much the norm in their culture when there’s barely enough money just to eat to survive. You might also want to know that for Christmas, every sponsor is asked to contribute $20 for each child they sponsor and the money is pooled and then EVERY SINGLE CHILD in the centers are given a gift – even if they don’t have a sponsor! I just LOVE how Compassion makes sure everyone is included in that way! Also, it may be good to know that in a few countries – Africa is one of them – only ONE child in the family is even ELIGIBLE to be sponsored! In other words, there may be 4 children, but only ONE of them is permitted to attend the center full time – school, church, programs, lunch – the parents and other family members are only permitted for certain programs. For this reason, I try to send the majority of the gift money that I send as a designated FAMILY gift, instead of an individual gift. It’s not the same as in the USA, but it breaks my heart to know that only ONE child gets gifts and all the other children in the family go without, so I only send very small birthday gifts, but I’ll send a big family gift at Christmastime and ask that each child gets a small gift and then the family spends the rest on everyone. Keep in mind that we are talking essentials here – again, NOT like the USA. For example, every birthday gift for seven years has been spent buying a hen! Every family gift has been spent buying a cow, or goat, or cooking oil and flour and beans, or getting a new piece of corrugated tin to replace the leaking “roof” over the 10 x 10 mud hut. Since “my” families don’t have water, or waste facilities, or electricity, or even furniture, other than woven mats on the floor, they girls never wrote that they bought a doll or a book, or even a piece of clothing. I guess a doll has little value when you’re hungry. The most amazing thing I witnessed when visiting them last month was how much they could eat! I’m a hearty eater, but these little girls, ages 7, 12, and 13 ate 4 times as much as I could possibly eat! The translator told me that it was likely that this was a very rare time when they were allowed to eat all they wanted! I was afraid they would pop!

      Back to your question: Money gifts are usually saved and sent with all of the monthly sponsor money (all of the $38 dollars a month) because this reduces money spent on banking charges, etc., so money gifts take the same amount of time as a letter, at best, or another three weeks, at worst, if the “deposit is made” just after the sponsor funds have been distributed to the centers. It was very wise of you to specify Rwanda, as you are correct in thinking that the different countries do NOT work the same way – in many cases, they work VERY DIFFERENTLY, so I, too, would receive such varied answers when I first started sponsoring seven years ago. People mean well, but even Compassion reps at the 800 numbers all tell you different answers because THEY don’t realize how vast the differences! Most noteably is that in AFRICA, almost evey center allows only ONE child to attend!!! That took 3 years for me to learn the answer to and the only reason I found out was because I tried to sponsor the sister of one of my girls for years and I was told such varied stories that all sounded good, but never quite made sense . It’s good to know these things right away, as it can make a big difference in WHERE you sponsor your children! Also, things to think about, such as for me, I wanted all my sponsored girls fairly close together because I can only afford to visit maybe once every five or six years. Keep reading and keep asking questions, Holly! I hope that this new relationship you’ve entered proves to be for you what it became for me: one of the most precious, God centered, deeply loving relationships you’ll ever experience in your life. I receive so much more from my precious girls than anything I could possibly give them. Rwandan people are so full of joy and willing to share the little they have with a stranger. Many of them trust God day to day to meet their needs and they are so thankful for so little.

  14. Maria Chamorro May 11, 2012

    Oh I would love to join you in this project! Please count me in!

  15. Nancy Collins May 11, 2012

    Thank you for encouraging me to write more. At the beginning I did write more and I am ready to be more consistent in writing again. Like you said it is the little things like letter writing that mean so much. So yes I would love to join and get more involved in developing a personal relationship with my Compassion child. I am from Birminghan Alabama

  16. Valerie April 5, 2012

    I was writing pretty faithfully until we built a house last year and the chaos overwhelmed me. I look forward to participating in this to become more faithful.

  17. June March 18, 2012

    Mary, Not sure if you are too young to join ourcompassion…but would love for you to join the letter writing group if you can. But a good way to get organized is to set a specific day each month to write to your sponsor child. Some people find it more conveinent to write online under their account on compassion.com. Call compassion if you need help setting this up. I hope this helps.
    June Gauss

  18. Mary March 17, 2012

    I wrote my child two letters when I first started and then didn’t write to her again for at least three months. I haven’t even sent the letter yet. I’m fourteen and am probably too young to be joining any online groups, but do you have any advice? I’m not especially organized.

  19. Britny March 5, 2012

    I will definitely be joining in. Just signed up to sponsor a second child and this will definitely help me make sure I write to both of them often. Plus, a theme will help tremendously. I find it hard to figure out what to write. Great idea by the way.

  20. Pamela Fitzner February 10, 2012

    I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but I cannot seem to join this virtual letter writing thing. (I’m a baby boomer and not very tech savvy, but I haven’t had this much trouble with anything on the Compassion website before).
    Can anyone help?

    1. Kees Boer February 10, 2012

      Well, I’ll be happy to help you, but I don’t think that it’s necessarily a “virtual” thing. It’s more like a convenant to write every second Friday of the month. Then how you send it wouldn’t make that much difference. But I’d be happy to help you. Just call me. (310) 933-4284

    2. Becky February 10, 2012

      Hi Pamela, the virtual letter writing group is part of a sponsor network called ourcompassion.org you can join there and create a profile with your email address (must be the same one you have on file with compassion). Then you scroll your mouse over the ‘connect’ on the top toolbar and select ‘find groups’ from the menu that drops down. You can search for the group ‘Virtual Child Sponsorship Letter Writing Night’ by typing in any portion of the title. There are multiple groups on there designed to give sponsors ideas for letter writing. Ourcompassion.org is a network connecting passionate sponsors, which I have found useful to learn more about CI’s work, where my child is from, met other sponsors who sponsor at the same project, seen pictures of my kid’s project and others in that country, shared prayer requests, given & received advice about how to respond to kid’s questions and letters, etc.

      If joining ourcompassion.org does not interest you at this time, then you are welcome to join the virtual letter writing club by writing your child online at compassion.com or writing a snail mail letter. The group is designed to encourage sponsors to write once a month on the 2nd Friday of the month, and you can participate by writing a letter today, this weekend or whenever you have time as our kids love to hear from us :-)

  21. Heidi Lee February 9, 2012

    Perfect Idea! Count us in. We are from Charlotte, NC :o)

  22. Terri Bottke February 8, 2012

    Hello I just signed on to write a letter to our sponsored child and came upon this option of writing every month. Dont know how i missed this the last time i sent a letter through this site. I would like to be included and will put a notation on my calendar for this coming Friday Feb 10th Thank you so much for being the person God used to get this accomplished. God bless

  23. Monica Schoening February 8, 2012

    i am so excited about this. i live in portland, oregon i just started sponsoring a little girl in ecuador. i am so excited to get to know her through letters and to have her get to know my family.

  24. Tori Selph February 6, 2012

    This is a wonderful idea! I hope to be able to attend the virtual letter writing event on Friday, 2/10! Lately, I’ve been encouraged to write more letters of purpose to my sponsored child in Tanzania. As his sponsor, I have a responsibility to introduce him to the love of Christ and how it will change his life. I have a responsibility to provide hope, teach him and share love. This weekend at our church, Compassion sponsored a concert with Robbie Seay Band & John Mark McMillan and they brought Ben, a Compassion child (now adult) from Kenya, to share his story. It was amazing to hear him talk about how his life was changed in 1993 when a sponsor from Austin, TX adopted him. His life was transformed, all from the relationship he shared with his sponsor. This definitely made me see my relationship with my child so much differently, it is a responsibility that God has given us. When our sponsored child is older, I imagine the way he will look back on his life and notice the life-changing moments…. And I hope one of those was getting into the Compassion program & connecting with us as his sponsor.

  25. Linda January 13, 2012

    I wrote last week online, but couldn’t download any pictures because they were all too big….they were just regular pictures, but I guess I’ll have to switch to snail mail when I want to send pictures. When I write tonight I’m including a little packet of valentines for my Linda to give to her special friends or family.

  26. Stephanie January 13, 2012

    Thanks, June! I live in Boulder, Colorado, and the recent stories about how much the letters mean to the children have inspired me. The once a month campaign is a great idea, and I’m going to write my child this very instant. :) Thank you

  27. KerryLyn January 13, 2012

    GREAT IDEA! And thank you for the encouragement to continue writing. I have become lazy and I just ran downstairs to grab a binder, what a great idea! Thank you again.

  28. Terri G. January 11, 2012

    Great idea. I’m horrible at letter writing and I’m not sure when she gets them, so I find myself repeating information.

  29. Sheila coito January 9, 2012

    Hi! I just received my pkg tonight! So excited to start writing:) where can i find the craft and theme ideas mentioned in the article? Thankyou!!!

    1. Sheila coito January 9, 2012

      oops! I found it:) thx!!! So very excited!

  30. Kassia January 9, 2012

    I think this is a great idea! I just received a note today that one of my children is expected to graduate the program next January and felt extremely convicted to write her more frequently. So much in my life has gone crazy this last year I have not written either of my children at all. I hope I can write them both more frequently from now on and give them the relationship they long for and the relationship I have not given up till now.

  31. Travis Gregg January 9, 2012

    Hello all,
    I have four kids in Africa, and have been convicted to write more frequently as well. Now, there are NO excuses with the online forms! Thanks so much Compassion for doing that! The picture feature is great! God bless everyone for your giving!

  32. Amanda January 9, 2012

    I love writing letters! I started sponsoring a boy in October I think it was and I wrote him but I have yet to hear from him. But I know it takes awhile. What really concerns me is that I had a Correspondent Sponsorship with a little girl and Ive been writing to her for about a month or two now and when I got on here today I couldn’t write to her and now there is a different girl where her name used to be. I love the fact that I get to write to another child but I am upset that I never got to hear from the other child and that I can’t write to her. Did I do something wrong or do they change them a lot?

    1. Kees Boer January 9, 2012

      I Amanda, I’m sure you didn’t do anything wrong. There are many reasons why the child could have “disappeared” from your profile. If you did something wrong, I’m sure that they wouldn’t have replaced the child. Most likely the child departed from the program. That could be because they moved to another area of the country, or their economic situation improved drastically or some other reason. If you call the call center 1-800-336-7676, they can tell you why. There is also the possibility that the financial sponsor decided after all to start writing the child. But generally they will assign a new correspondence child to you when you can’t continue to write the child for some reason. So, that’s what the new child is there for. Hopefully, you can continue writing with the new child for many years. I have correspondence children that I’ve had for over 4 years. One of them calls me “daddy” and I’m closer to her than even to many of my sponsored children.

  33. Sandra January 5, 2012

    -Our family began sponsoring a child on Christmas Day 2011. I am the grandma and the official contact. Here I sit full of thoughts but none of them have made it onto paper or my computer screen yet. I’ll be joining you on Friday. We live in Florida, our sponsored child is in the Dominican Republic.

    1. Jacquie Parella January 5, 2012

      We are happy to have you! This post and the comments section may be helpful in getting you started in your letter writing. Our community of sponsors have a wealth of ideas!

  34. carol December 29, 2011

    Thanks so much for creating this group! i just joined – think it went thru!
    i found this page bc it is on my list today to write to our sponsored child, Jane. i haven’t been very regular in doing so and i believe this group will help. Thanks for the ideas!

  35. ann becerra November 19, 2011

    I try to write my sponsored boys twice a month. The 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month. I visited my sponsor boy in Ethiopia and the case worker showed me all the letters and pictures I’ve sent my little boy. He does receives all my letters/pictures. I love receiving letter as well and the feeling is indescribable. I can imagine what a delight it migh be for my boys to receive letters so I try to write as much as I can. I love receiving/writing letters since I was a little girl (email is great) but nothing can take the place of knowing someone actually took the time to write and mail a letter. I have committed myself to write at least one letter a month (but so far I’m doing better, two letters a month) to my little boys. I want to know more about them and vice versa. I encourage all sponsors to write to their beautiful kids at least once a month. They will be pleased, I am sure about that. Thank you all for being great sponsors!

  36. Roxanne Johnson November 12, 2011

    I LOVE the new stationary and the ability to upload pictures right into the letter. That is always the hardest part of my letters. I want to share pictures but sometimes my printer just won’t make pretty pictures. Thank you, June, for your wonderful story.

  37. Clatice Seipp November 12, 2011

    It’s so great that god has blessed me with my sponsor child from India Divya she is 5 yrs and I feel very blessed that she has asked my husband and I if it’s ok for her to call us aunty and uncle :) makes me so happy ! I enjoy writing her every week and now that they have a new thing of uploading pics makes it even more fun! I can’t wait to visit and meet my sponsor child in the future!

  38. dylan November 11, 2011

    Awesome! I try to write a least once a month this will help keep me on that. My sponsor child asked if he could call me big brother a few letters back (he’s 11 and I’m 19) It’s such a joy to write my “little brother” God is working big time in his life. So great to be a part of his life.

  39. Heather November 10, 2011

    i write to my little boy every monday. i know how important letters and pictures are to him. he asked me to write every week, and spent half an hour writing that sentence, he’s only 6. i am very excited to write to him again tomorrow and every second friday of every month. thank you for the wonderful idea! God bless!

  40. biba November 10, 2011

    I thought I was only allowed to wtite twice a year

    1. Roxanne Johnson November 12, 2011

      Hi Biba,
      How sad that you thought you could only write your child 2 times a year. Oh my, you can write your child anytime you want to. I write my little girl at least once a month and sometimes more. Now that you know you can write more often, you will be able to encourage your child with more letters. Yay.

    2. Kees Boer November 10, 2011

      [quote comment=”35013″]I thought I was only allowed to wtite twice a year[/quote]

      Wow, that’s an interesting piece of feedback. I’m glad you mentioned that. I’m curious. How did you come to that conclusion?

  41. MonaLisa November 10, 2011

    I have always written letters to my child after I have received hers but now this idea gives me the chance to be more proactive. ThanksI

  42. Nancy November 9, 2011

    I take time to write each time I go online to pay my bill. By not setting up auto pay, I have to actually stop and think about my young man in Guatemala. Now that we can upload stationary and photos, it’s even more fun.

  43. Delores Johnson November 9, 2011

    This is such a great idea, I never knew how important the letter writing was to the children, i will put a reminder in my phone to write at least once per month, I sponsor two children, and yes it is easy just to send money I see thats only a part of the need, soo looking forward to ideas and encouragement to stay committed. God Bless

  44. Katie Axelson November 9, 2011

    What a beautiful idea!


  45. JanMarie November 9, 2011

    I will join you! I feel strongly about connecting with “our kids” beyond finances.

  46. Kristin Jacobsen-Zippilli November 9, 2011

    I sponsored a child in my eight yr-old daughter’s name. We chose a girl in Ethiopia who had been without a sponsor for almost a year and had a birthday a week before my daughter’s. My daughter feels very much a part of this great act of giving-not simply money, but hope and communication. The ;apse in the standard mail was frustrating to both of us, so I hope that email proves speedier to avoid the crossover.

  47. Eleanor Cline November 9, 2011

    My husband and I committed to sponsoring a child in June this year and knew from the outset that we’d have to be serious about writing to our sponsored child regularly because, when you’re busy, time does have a tendency to disappear quickly! So, we too made a folder and scan our letters before posting so we have a log of what’s been received and sent. We aim to write every month if possible and God is really impressing upon our hearts how important it is to just let our sponsored child know that we’re thinking of her. As we can only send items that are flat, we make a point of collecting postcards wherever we go and send these. We are so privileged to be able to sponsor a child!

  48. Yolanda Badillo November 8, 2011

    What a wonderful idea! I am going to make writing my child a priority and I think setting a date each month is a great way to start.

  49. Haleigh November 8, 2011

    I am planning on doing the letter writing on the 10th!

  50. Karen November 8, 2011

    I just sponsored my first child last night!! I am so excited. I wrote today but will committ to another letter on Friday. :)

    1. Kees Boer November 8, 2011

      Hi, Karen, I’m so thankful for you!!! Thank you for writing your child. This brings tears to my eyes. You’re off to a great start. Your child will be so thankful that they get the letters from you. Your letters will mean so much to the child and when the child writes you back, this will be a big blessing for them too!!!

  51. Amy Vine November 7, 2011

    Im so excited to find this opportunity! Ive never “joined” any kind of group in my life “on-line” like this but I KNOW that our letters are so important and I know that the idea of being accountable can only be a good thing! Thank you for being obedient, Good for you June!!

  52. Elizabeth White November 7, 2011

    Dearest Cristian, my husband John and I are delighted to make you a part of our lives. We have four gownn daughterrs and have always wanted a son! Please know that we look forward to hearing all about your days and are so very blessed that God gave us to each other. We will keep you in our prayers and want you to pray for us. My birrthday is March 4th, the same month as yours! We have two pupppies and a kitty. Write back soon Cristian as we are so excited to have you in our lives. God bless you and your family. we love you, John and Elizabeth White

  53. Billie Clark November 7, 2011

    Indead you have been blessed by our God, and now so have we. My husband Richard and I are eager to join you this friday night, for letter writing. We are new sponsers to a little Guatamalan boy as well as being grandparents of an adopted guatamalan grandson for 10 yrs. now. Words can not describe the incredible amount of joy that came into our hearts, when our first packet arrived in the mail a few weeks ago.

  54. Teresa November 1, 2011

    I would like to be part of your online writing, how do I sign up? You know the money is almost the easy part, its the relational part that becomes harder when your busy. Also, I love the idea of having a set time each month and I’m hoping you give ideas so its not the same thing every month. Thank you for doing this! I love serving a God that loves to show his children how much he cares for us!!

  55. Anna October 31, 2011

    Oh I love this idea as well!! Your letter reached my heart and spoke to me and I quickly acted on it…I hate to admit it it,… but I am one who dosn’t write as often as I should. So this will help immensely!!! I pray to stay strong with my intentions!!

  56. Karen October 16, 2011

    This is a great idea! Sometimes I’m so busy but I need to remember my sponsor child wants to hear from me. I made a promise to myself to write my sponsor child on the 2nd Sunday of each month.

    I also love the new stationery – my sponsor child loves soccer!


  57. Jenna Ward October 13, 2011

    I am new…I just want to know if I can write my child a letter??

    1. Leslie (Houston, TX) November 13, 2011

      I’m new too. I recently wrote my sponsored child here online…On your Account Summary page, to the left you’ll see “My Account” & below that in blue, click “Write My Child”. Under “Letter Writing”, you can “Compose Letter”. Hope this helps; blessings to you!

  58. Jen October 13, 2011

    I wish I was a correspondence sponsor so I could join you guys, but they haven’t called me back or emailed yet… Hopefully soon though.

  59. Mariah October 10, 2011

    Great Idea :) i’ve used the ‘write on the second friday of every month’ idea myself. except instead of friday my scedule is kinda funky so its different. But Thank You for this IDEA!!! :-)

  60. kate October 9, 2011

    what a wonderful idea to keep me on track and be more consistent with my letters. I know the turn around time is usually 2-3 months from the dates of her letters. I’m new to the compassion website and am just learning to navigate my way around it. Is writing on-line quicker then handwritten ones. I will be going to Europe and will check when I’m back on the 22nd. God bless you

  61. Chelsie Allen September 26, 2011

    I write to my child once a month and so far I have gotten 2 letters back from her. I am very thankful that I was able to sponsor the child that I have sposored. I plan to keep the letters that I have gotten from her so that I will be able to show my children when I have children.

  62. Larissa C September 21, 2011

    I have also written today. I must say, I ‘haven’t written my child for 2 years. Mainly because someone was writing for him. Now he’s 6 years old and he has written his very own first letter. This really made me want to write him as often as possible.

    Can writing a child often become too much for the child?

    1. Kees Boer September 21, 2011

      Hi, Larissa,

      That is a really good question. At the age of 6, that’s an amazing young age to write the first letter. That’s awesome!!!

      I have to say this. I’ve seen many children write their letters. When the child is very young, they can take a long time over the letters. I remember a little girl sitting across the table from me and she must have spent about 2 hours just on the drawing that was on the letter. Then the letter gets written in a book first and then copied over into the actual letter. That’s why the letters are so neat. So, it can be about a 4 hour process for them. Now, if the child is in a country where right now, they write 3 letters/year, called program letters, then it wouldn’t make too much of a difference. But if the child has to write back every letter, then I wouldn’t write more than once/month. Unless you can combine the letters so that they can receive the letters together. This is also something to consider that if the letters come there all together, but get delivered to the student center just once a month, then it might not make that much of a difference. I guess that depends on the country and the location of the project.

      Your letters will be very important to that child and to the family. They listen to you. You’re a very important person in that family’s life and if you ever went to visit them, you’d be amazed.

      Thank you for writing to your child. That’s a very big deal to the child. :-)

  63. Chelsie Allen September 10, 2011

    I think that it is a good (great) idea that you are doing the second friday of the month thing to write to your sponsored child. I have so far since I started writing once a month to my child. I have recieved 2 letters so far from my child. I think that maybe for next month I might particapte in the online writing. That is if my computer will allow me to do that.

  64. Jenae September 9, 2011

    I’m writing today!

  65. Clarice Seipp September 8, 2011

    would luv to join…but ahhh new to this can u help me out lol…
    i sponsor a girl 5yrs old from india divya…
    i always email her or send her letters and stickers since i cant really send much to her…but i do send her gifts once in while when i know i have extra money to send…:) can someone help me out how to do this ? i luv keeping in touch with my sponsor girl…god has blessed me with her..

  66. Marlis September 8, 2011

    I already have a reminder on my calendar to write our two kids once a month. It is not necessarily the second Friday each month as you are doing, but once a month nonetheless. So I applaud you for encouraging more people to do this. We have sponsored children for years, but its only in the past few I’ve felt compelled like you to make my correspondence more consistent. Blessings!

  67. Ross September 7, 2011

    Great idea! Will tell other sponsors in our church about your 2nd Friday idea. My family sponsors 2 children and we write them the first week of every month (same kind of idea you have) so if we join you on the second Friday it is because we got our letters done the week before! :-)

  68. Sierra August 29, 2011

    I just sponsered my first child. :) I plan on writing her sometime this week and atleast once a month, and I’ll try to on Sept 10. Can’t wait!

  69. rebecca warren August 24, 2011

    It’s been almost a year but I just found this article. It is just what I needed to read. I, too, have been more likely to wait and reply to their letters rather than writing in between times. The replies are also helpful. Although I found the one about taking the picture w/ the birthday gift if it’s over $60 odd. I’ve been a sponsor for 7+ years and that is a new one to me. In addition, my statements indicate NOT to send more than $50.

    1. Becky August 24, 2011

      Hi to a fellow Rebecca :-)

      CI updated their gift giving recently-I think it was last year. Their new website lists a FAQ for gift giving here:

      In the ‘How much may I give’ section they have the following information: You can give up to $200 a year to your sponsored child — a $100 birthday gift and a $100 general gift — and an additional $1,000 to the family. You can also give a graduation gift of up to $2,000 in the child’s final year of sponsorship.

      It is a sizeable increase over what it was when I signed up to be a sponsor, and I have stuck to gifts of around $25 for birthdays and special occasions (like improvement in school grades). I would reserve large gifts like that for children who are classified as highly vulnerable (orphans living with relatives among others) or one who experienced a disaster, like a famine, flood or earthquake.

      I’ve given gifts over the amount that normally triggers a photo, but the project my children attend (same project) doesn’t have the resources to send a picture so I do not receive one. There are many other sponsors on Ourcompassion.org (sponsor website to share stories, prayer requests and get ideas) who have never received pictures with gifts either. You are not alone!

    2. Kees Boer August 24, 2011

      I’ve never heard about taking a photo of the child with the gift when the gift is over $60 or any sort of amount. I worked in several centers myself and seen them take the pictures when a gift comes. Also, I worked in the country office in Bolivia and handled those particular photographs. Some gifts were small and they got photos, others were bigger. I don’t know where this is, but it’s not that way in Bolivia for sure and the other countries where I sponsor children in, I’ve sent gifts for $10 and I have received photos of the children with them….. So, I don’t know where that is, that they have that rule. It might be in a country, where $60 might also be a nice number with their currency. For instance I was just in Peru and $35 is about 100 soles….

      1. Kim August 25, 2011

        Kees, I just found where Shaina mentioned the “$60/picture/sort of”:

        “If you send a gift of more than $60 you should receive a picture of your sponsored child posing with what was purchased. However, not all child development centers have the capability to send pictures.” You’ll find this just beneath the first picture in the article, but again, as you’ve mentioned, I think Shaina was referring to Bolivia, though it wasn’t stated, rather, implied in the article below:

        Courtesy of Compassion International: http://blog.compassion.com/give-a-gift-to-your-sponsored-child-how-what-why/#ixzz1W5HL4ZhB

        1. Kees Boer August 25, 2011

          I was just looking through that picture and yes that picture was of an Aymaran woman and her family, so it was either Bolivia (most likely) or the east side of Peru.

          But yes, it’s very true that with money, the center can buy so much more than you’ll ever be able to buy in the USA. The vast majority of things are so much cheaper in Bolivia than in the USA. The only thing that I found was more expensive were electronics.

          The customs are a very important thing to consider. I ran into this this trip to Bolivia. I had a bunch of little dolls in a suitcase as a gift for the children. Well, when I got to Santa Cruz, and I opened my suitcase, there jumped out all the little dolls (they had been squized together). I ended up spending 7 very stressful hours walking all over the place, trying to pay the imports. I thought next time, I buy everything in Bolivia. It ended up cutting into one of my child visits and I almost didn’t have a child visit with that particular child.

          As far as the $60 is concerned, maybe this is a guideline of Compassion that I’m not aware of. But I do know that many times , the center will sent photos for gifts way under $60. For instance, I had a friend of mine, who went to Bolivia. So, I put together a CD with photos and videos to give to each of the children. In case you want to see what I put on the CD, I also put it on line:


          Anyways, I got a bunch of photos from each of the children with that CD. You can see them here:

          You can actually see most of the photos here:


          Anyways, I hoped that helped. Maybe Shaina can give some more insight as to where she got the $60 number from.

          He dropped the CD o

      2. Kim August 24, 2011

        I saw that, too, Kees and wondered about the $60 gift means you’ll get a picture. I’ve sent quite a bit more than $60 one a few occasions and have never received a picture, but as you have educated me, different countries or programs obviously don’t go by that. I’m guessing that some programs/centers don’t even have a camera, based on my experiences and I’ve wondered (and have looked for), a place where I could donate the money to buy a camera for the centers my sponsored children attend. Is this a possibility, Kees? I thank you for any insight you may share. Thank you for mentoring me! I appreciate you so very much!

        1. Kees Boer August 24, 2011

          Kim, I do know that if you call the call center in Colorado Springs. (I’m assuming you’re in the USA), you can send money to the center to buy a digital camera. Having said that, my experience in Bolivia has been that the vast majority of centers have digital cameras. The same with what I saw in Peru. I would think that even in Africa, they might have that, but I’m not sure. I do know that I get photos from a lot of centers. It seems to be the most economical way to take photos. And even a lot of the cellphones now have that you can take pictures with them. I’ve even seen some of my children have cellphones with cameras on them. But if the project has a camera already, they can maybe use it for something else. But my experience is really Bolivia based and not so much the other countries.

          1. Kim August 25, 2011

            Kees, thank you! I’ll call them! I’m so excited!

          2. Misty August 25, 2011

            In regard to the photos, I seem to get them from Central and South America. Mostly, in Asia, I don’t get photos when I send a gift. That’s probably a cultural thing too!
            God bless

  70. kathryn gironimi August 8, 2011

    I will be joining! I’m from CT- and the child I sponsor is from Haiti

  71. Jean Freaney July 8, 2011

    Thats amazing. I didnt know it was letter writing day . I actually put a letter in the post today for my little boy in Haiti. I always enclose a little something, – photo, little cross etc . and always a prayer.

  72. Linda Bolt July 5, 2011

    I often write my sponsored child through e-mail. Do the children value receiving a typed letter (I assume someone prints it out for them?) as much as a handwritten letter?

    1. Kees Boer July 5, 2011

      Hi, Linda, yes, they receive the letters typed and if they are in Bolivia, I know that they receive them on very nice stationary. It is also a lot faster, than the regular handwritten letters. About 3 times faster.

  73. pamela June 24, 2011

    is there a way to correspond with my child online?
    also, besides pictures, is there anything that we can ‘send’ to
    the child we are sponsoring?

    1. Becky August 24, 2011

      I just noticed your comment. Yes, you can write online. Simply go to Compassion.com and click the ‘My account’ in the upper right hand corner to either login or create an account. You will be able to write your child a letter from your account by scrolling down to the ‘my commitments’ with your child’s name after you login and clicking their name. At the bottom of the second page that appears there is space for you to write a letter online. There is a maximum character limit (it’s really long!) and the page will timeout after 60 minutes. I recommend writing the letter in MS Word or another program and then copying and pasting the letter into the box online.

  74. brayan June 10, 2011

    para mi fue un gusto y colaborar en el proyecto 272ya que me graduo y me cancelaron y estoy muy triste pero yo seguiere colaborando en la iglesia…..!!!!

  75. Michelle June 10, 2011

    i just started sponsering my first child with compassion and i want to send her a birthday present. Does anyone know if compassion only takes monetary gifts or do they let you send more personal presents?

    1. Kim June 24, 2011

      Only monetary gifts, but usually, you’ll receive a picture of your child posing with the gift if you send $60 or more. (The developmental center takes the picture, gives it to CI, then CI sends it to you. Sometimes, they give the child the picture to send to you.) It would be nice if we were able to send more personalized gifts, but remember two thing; 1. The duty and taxes and penalties and mail theft is unbelievably HIGH in most places where poverty is high and …2. Our sponsored children would most likely be SADDENED by our gift choices! ie: Receiving a doll when you are starving can seem like a “waste”. A bag of dried beans is often MUCH more valuable to a child. Better yet, a gift of a chicken or two or three can provide eggs for a family for many years and/or provide “a job and income” from selling some of the eggs…far more valuable to my child in Rwanda. In fact, of the 3 gifts I’ve sent her, she decided to buy 2 or 3 chickens each time! Now, she sells any eggs that her family doesn’t eat. Remember that these kids are much more practical and at a much younger age than Americans/Westerners. Also, the money usually goes a lot further in their country than it does in ours. It helps to get over the fact that we aren’t able to send a particular toy or dress to our child when we’re aware of these things. I wish CI would make all this clear on their website!!!! I didn’t know this for many YEARS!!!! Not all of us care to Facebook, Twitter, or any of the social networking. Thanks goodness many wonderful sponsors have taken the time to write articles to educate us. I honestly believe there would be many more sponsors if CI wouldn’t be so “vague” about how things work! It’s that “vagueness/lack of clarity” that causes much skepticism and distrust. ie: SPELL IT OUT CLEARLY, CI! When you AVOID spelling it out clearly, you tend to cause much doubt as to what “really happens” when we send money and/or sponsor a child! Spell it out on your MAIN website…don’t make sponsors have to research to get answers you should state clearly and we should be able to access EASILY. It’s not only frustrating, but tends to rustle up fear, doubt and worry. Not the message that’s intended, I’m sure.

      1. Shaina Moats August 24, 2011

        Kim, it definitely isn’t our intention to be vague or not communicate things clearly. Compassion’s ministry is incredibly complex- like Kees commented, we work in many countries and each one looks a little different. It can be difficult to communicate all of this information clearly and without it becoming overwhelming. We try to use different platforms (blog, Facebook, Twitter, OurCompassion, etc.) to provide information, but the information is the same across all of them. You can view the letter writing (http://www.compassion.com/letter-writing/letter-writing-topics-faq.htm) and gift giving faq (https://www.compassion.com/give-a-gift/faq.htm) on our website. Our goal is to be full of integrity and transparent. If you have any suggestions of how we can do this better, I’d be happy to pass them on to the correct people.

        1. Kim August 25, 2011

          Excellent blog about gift giving:

        2. Kim August 25, 2011

          Like Kees is teaching me, apparently the article you wrote about gift giving amounts and pictures must be unique to the center your child(ren) are at. When I read articles and blogs from CI folks, I’ve always assumed these things applied to all centers unless otherwise clearly stated. I don’t doubt for a moment that the intention is to be clear, but sometimes it isn’t.

          Your excellent article on gift giving does provide a disclaimer, but it would lead one to expect a picture if they sent $200 – providing the center had a camera:

          “If you send a gift of more than $60 you should receive a picture of your sponsored child posing with what was purchased. However, not all child development centers have the capability to send pictures.” You’ll find this just beneath the first picture in the article, but again, as you’ve mentioned, Kees, I think Shaina was referring to Bolivia, though it wasn’t stated, rather, implied in the article below:

          Courtesy of Compassion International: http://blog.compassion.com/give-a-gift-to-your-sponsored-child-how-what-why/#ixzz1W5HL4ZhB

        3. Kim August 24, 2011

          Thank you for your reply, Shaina! Yes, I’m slowly learning how it could be overwhelming to give all the details. And please accept my apology for sounding so critical. I went back and read what I wrote and see that I wasn’t clear in my communication. (Words are only 7% of communication.) Please know that I have never for a moment thought CI was deliberately vague or misleading – I LOVE CI and what CI does. Rather, I simply didn’t realize the vast differences between countries and centers. My only suggestion would be for CI to note that there ARE differences (some quite large) between countries. And like CI has a symbol to note the children who have waited the longest, perhaps CI could designate which countries have the biggest limitations on how many children are permitted to “receive benefits”. Had I known, for example, that most African families are limited to ONE child per family, I would have chosen children from larger families. Just as I chose children from families within the same country and area where the families average income in lowest, (which CI does indicate). Now that I know, I’ll chose my next child differently, but I wouldn’t consider dropping my sponsorship with the children I already sponsor, as I love them so much. Now I have more factors to consider in my next decision, though. Thank you for asking, Shaina!

      2. Kees Boer August 24, 2011

        Kim, one of the main reasons why CI doesn’t probably spell all of these things out is that they work with thousands of church partners in 26 different countries. Each of these church partners has a certain amount of liberty and how they implement the programs and each country has liberties too as to how they implement the programs. The needs of each country and within that country, each region can be different. Also, the cultures are different. So, maybe in one region, there is a huge problem with just basic food but the area is fairly safe. In another area, the food problem might not be that big, but they have a huge problem with gangs. So, the approaches are going to be different. Thus poverty rears its ugly head in different manifestations. Thus the solution will be different.

        1. Kim August 24, 2011

          Thanks so much for the reply, Kees. You’ve made some great points and (as usual!) clarified things for me. Though I did understand that the cultures might vary greatly, I did not know that different countries and regions were permitted to vary the basic program, until I discovered that children allowed in the program varied by country. For example, I learned that in some countries, ALL the children in a family could receive services, while in other countries, the limit may be only 1 or 2 children per family – regardless of how many children are in a particular family. (In my particular case, I’ve been told that only 1 child per family in most parts of Africa can be sponsored and attend the programs, regardless of whether the family has only 1 child or 6 children.) Maybe it’s just me, but now that I understand this, it makes a huge difference to me as to where my sponsored children live – even though it may mean I never have the opportunity to visit them because they live so far away. Thanks so much Kees, for your explanation. Maybe what you’ve stated is all CI would need to say…that “the program rules” are just “guidelines” and that they may vary tremendously from country to country and/or region to region and to contact CI for more information. I did just that (contacted CI) to ask if what I was hearing was true and the first person I spoke to said that it was NOT true…that ALL children in ALL families were welcome to attend a program. When I called a second time after reading differently, I was told by CI that it’s TRUE that ESPECIALLY IN AFRICA, children are limited to ONE child per family in most areas, but that other siblings and parents were invited to “family events” for “special occasions”. To be clear, my reason for wanting to be informed of such information is this: If one of my sponsored children has five siblings in Africa that are not permitted to join the program (and get a meal along with the other benefits of students), then I want to send substantial family gifts to that family – much more than I send to the family in another country that has four children and three of them are allowed to participate as students in the program. Now that I have a clear understanding, I send only birthday and Christmas gifts to the child with more fortunate siblings and all family gifts are now doubled for the African family with only one child receiving a meal through the program. I get why CI cannot spell out every detail…but it would have been nice to know (just like they let us know which children have been waiting the longest), to tell us to contact them to find out which countries have the strictest or “most difficult/limited to get into” programs. Does this make any sense? Maybe it’s just me. Maybe (like me) most sponsors have no clue that this may be the case. I love you, Kees! You’ve taught me so much about Compassion! One night (after I found one of your blogs) I read everything I could find that you’ve written and I was up for 18 hours! Bless you!!! I love CI, too! I just wish I’d known these things early on and will certainly keep them in mind as I sponsor more and more children. I didn’t intend to sound so critical, it was just my disappointment showing.

          1. Kees Boer August 24, 2011

            I did not know this. I know in Bolivia for the first 3 children, they can register one child. Then they can register another child for the next two children, I believe. Then they can register a third child, but that will be the total. Sometimes, some families are sneaky. They will register a child in one project and then go to another project with the other child and try to register the child there. They are not supposed to be doing that, but it happens at times. The centers are many times close as far as relationships is concerned. So, they do interact.

    2. Becky June 10, 2011

      Congrats on becoming a sponsor! I’ve found the relationship benefits me just as much if not more than my sponsored boy. I actually just mailed my soon to be 12 year old boy a birthday card with presents yesterday. I mailed him a birthday card with some paperboard tangrams to make shapes out of along with a Bible verse from a calendar I have. Compassion will accept any presents that meet their stipulations (designed to prevent items being held up in customs or taxed at a high rate), which quite simply is anything flat less than 1/4 that is made out of paper (or laminated paper). Michelle has a more detailed list on her blog, which is copied from CI’s website, of what you can send. I also encourage you to check out her ‘Letter Writing 101’ posts as well as the tabs at the top on the blog about letter writing.


      You can send a monetary gift that would be used to buy your kid something also. In the past my kid has gotten (not all the same year, but over many years) clothes, food and toys with the money sent. To save transfer costs, CI transfers money once a month from their offices in the US to the foreign countries, so make sure to send the money 2-3 months in advance. If you don’t, your kid will still enjoy it when the money arrives to buy a present though. Letters also take 1-3 months to get to your kid depending on the remoteness of the project.

      Excellent blog about gift giving:

      I also encourage you to join OC (OurCompassion.org) if you haven’t, as it is a great group of sponsors and there are lots of people who would be happy to answer questions about sponsorship, pray with you, and share with you about their kids.

      Hm, that response was a bit long, but I wanted to point you in other places to get information if you had more questions :)

  76. Shane June 9, 2011

    I have decided to write letters to my kids after reading the post. God bless you !

  77. Mary Kilbride May 14, 2011

    My husband just recently found out about these opportunities here and gave me the link. I am ashamed to say that we were for so long very loyal about keeping up with our CompassionKids (that’s what we have always called them). I sat last night and went through the thigns they have made us and read old letters, and ran across one that the sponsor put a note in. She said this: Miqueis loves you very much and loves your letters and the things you send him. His mother said that you were the most important thing that has happened in his life.
    Tears rolled down my face as I thought of him not hearing from us like he used to…. What happened? Things happened in my life and I have gotten so into feeling sorry for myself, that I have not given the attention to my children in Compassion that I should have.

    I am no longer working but told my husband that I would never give up the sponsorship as long as I have a dime in mypocket. But, in my feeling sorry for myself state, the letters and little trinkets I sent them trickled off.

    I am making a commitment to once again being the Sponsor I once was (that WE once were..my husband and I), so I would like to come here and share iwth you, hear your stories and be reminded of that second Friday in the month to dedicate some time to my CompassionKids again.

    We have two now. We have sponsored four so far. ONe girl aged out… and is going to school to get a career in hair dressing and later to become a teacher. She is really SPECIAL, but we will never get to hear from her again.

    One we lost because Compassion pulled away from the church that was doing this and so we were notified that we lost Elbis. We never got to tell him goodbye and this has been a heartbreak for me then and still is today. I pray for him and wish I knew that he is ok.

    I now have Rosa who is new, and Miqueias who is now 13 and we have had him since he was 5. WONDERFUL and gifted young man.

    I want to get back to being as close to them as we once were and I thank God for the priviledge of doing so.

    Thank you and I hope you will allow me to become a part of your group. I have always had a passion for Compassion and all they do.


  78. Jim & Kayla May 12, 2011

    It’s in my planner to join the virtual writing party. Our daughter is the same age as our sponsor girl and she asks for pics and updates every time she writes. We keep a scrap book w received letters but we also copy the letters we write so we remember what we’ve already told her. Love this experience!

  79. Cindy May 12, 2011

    I just sat down and wrote out 15 letters (no, not all to the same child!) and once I got the format for one, used a lot of the same for the others, adding personal touches to each. I made sure I had a Bible verse, the springtime/seasonal information, flowers coming up, etc. I told them that next time they all get an updated picture. No matter how many times I send one, they always want more so I give it to them. I also included a coloring page for each – even the oldest one – he is an artist so he might like it too. I get my inspiration from the letters I get and share among all but do not let the others know that is anyone besides them. :) I just love these children!!

    1. Jacquie Parella May 12, 2011

      That’s amazing Cindy. You are my new hero!! :-)

  80. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies May 12, 2011

    I just shared some Spring ideas for letter writing topics! http://www.bloggingfromtheboonies.com/2011/05/finally-spring.html I hope these help to inspire you, if you’re struggling with what to write about!

  81. Jo Armentrout May 11, 2011

    I love this idea! I am in Taiwan, and plan to send my kids letters ~ I am not full sure ow the virtual group works, but I’ll read more on it and be informed :) God’s using you all in a grand way and I’m excited about it!

  82. Kendra May 9, 2011

    This is a great idea! I just tried to sign up though and they could not find my information, even though my email address is on my profile :( Bummer! I was hoping to use it!

  83. Our Family for His Glory April 8, 2011

    What a wonderful idea to encourage others to take time each month to write to those precious kids! This month we are sending special letters about Jesus, as well as stained-glass crosses & special cross pictures our children made for our sponsor kids. Here’s where you can see more… http://ourfamilyforhisglory.blogspot.com/2011/04/children-in-need-of-jesus.html

    1. Kim June 24, 2011

      PLEASE don’t send stained glass crosses to the sponsored children! When ANYTHING is found in a package, (OTHER THAN PAPER), not only is that particular envelope held up (to be charged enormous $ for duty and taxes and…), But the ENTIRE BOX of mail marked for that particular Development Center is held up – sometimes for 6 months! (That means ALL the letters for ALL the kids are NOT getting to the kids!!!)

      I found this out when a friend sent a very thin bracelet made out of tiny beads in one of her letters to her sponsored child. It was actually CI that found the bracelet during spot checks BEFORE the box arrived at the destination country. They mailed the bracelet back to my friend, with a letter saying what I’ve said here. It’s just NOT worth the heartache that can effect so many children and their sponsors by trying to “work around” the clear rules that ONLY PAPER may be sent, and then ONLY one forth inch thick MAX, and ONLY 8 1/2 inches x 11 inches MAX.

      It’s probably too late at this point, but the next time, please just send the “special cross pictures” and give the “stained glass crosses” to a local organization, such as a homeless shelter, or something like that. You’ll be doing us ALL a favor! THANKS!!!

  84. Tammy Mattox April 8, 2011

    Thank you for following your heart. In the beginning, I didn’t write my child very often. She moved away. Then I chose another girl. I’ve tried to write her at least once every 2 months. This has made me more determined to write every month. Thanks! I am from Coweta, Oklahoma. My child lives in Brazil. I would love to go & meet her someday soon!

  85. Nancy Hafner April 8, 2011

    I just finished writing my letter to Eduardo. Thank you for this sight.
    Lord thank you for blessing me with this child.

  86. Tanya Knaub April 7, 2011

    Thank you so very much for sharing your story. You are so right, I think we do forgot just how important our sponsor children like to receive our letters. I know I’m guilty of not writing as much as I should. I end up getting overwhelmed with all of the stuff on this side and then I’ll say I’ll do it the following day; however the following day comes and goes and I still didn’t write my letter. This will help hold us accountable. After reading your post, I just did my letter (online) Thurs. night. My family lives in Tennessee and our compassion daughter is from India.

  87. Christina April 7, 2011

    I’m going to write my letter right now! this is such a good idea/ and no, I don’t fully understand how much the letters I write my child mean to him. It was good to read this article. Thanks

  88. Melissa April 6, 2011

    I am excited to be a part of this, this Friday. We just lost of one our sponsored children from the program because she moved away. I have just chosen another older child to sponsor since they do not find sponsors as easily, and I hope to be writing to her for the first time Friday! Melissa in Vancouver, WA

  89. june April 6, 2011

    Anne- Even though he is 11, he may not know how to write yet. One thing to check would be what grade level his profile information says he’s at. This may confirm this theory.

  90. Anne April 6, 2011

    I have written early this month as I won’t be able to write on Friday. I have written online but I have a postcard I want to send so will post that to CI UK separately. I have never received a letter in my boy’s own hand. I am not sure at what age he is likely to be able to write. He draws small pictures but he is 11 years old so should I expect a short letter from him (translated by someone else, of course)?

    1. Melissa April 6, 2011

      He may not be interested in the writing aspect…the busyness of boys! Or perhaps he is not developmentally able to write? Just let him know that you are excited to receive the next letter from him. At some point, writing might get easier than explaining what he wants to say to another person. I’m sure he is thrilled when he hears from you. Be of good cheer, knowing you encourage him despite his poverty!

  91. Clarice Seipp April 6, 2011

    Hi I am all new to this, so yes I would luv to join and wrote my sponsor child this friday..

  92. Paige Szajnuk April 4, 2011

    This is a great idea! Thank you for this post. I will write to my two sponsored children on Friday, April 8 – my wedding anniversary!

  93. Jamie Rindt March 11, 2011

    Great article. I wrote a letter today and mailed it! But, I got to write more!!!

  94. Jyll March 10, 2011

    Thanks for the reminder! I am planning on taking time to write tomorrow :) What a great idea June!

  95. Kim March 10, 2011

    I was wondering if the children write their own letters or do they write them as a group with the rest of the Compassion children? The reason I ask this is that I sponsor numerous children and have received the identical letter from several of the children.

    1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies March 11, 2011

      Are they all in the same project? We have 9 CI kids and we’ve never experienced anything like this at all. For some children, if they are in the same project, they may follow certain writing prompts but they shouldn’t all be identical. Call Compassion at 1-800-336-7676 and they may ask for a scan of the letters so they can investigate.

      1. Kim March 11, 2011

        Thanks for the suggestion. Yes, 3 of the 11 children are in the same project (and they are the ones with the identical letters).

        1. Denise Arnold April 17, 2011

          We received almost identical letters from one time to the next from both of our sponsored children….over the course of YEARS. The drawings were even the same. One in Haiti, one in Ethiopia. There was never acknowledgement or comments about special things we would send them and they never answered our specific questions….ever, not once. So…I am ashamed to say, we quit writing because we assumed adult translators were writing generic (which is what they ALWAYS sounded like) en masse letters. Today however, we got a letter from one of the boys who is in highschool and is now writing his own letters…at least it appears as such. He asked for a picture of us. I feel so heartbroken and guilty for losing “years” if in fact the boys were receving what we sent. I wish I knew. Stupid….we should have written anyway. We have a new sponsored child now and plan to write and send gifts often. As a side note, all monetary gifts we sent have always been acknowledged and we have been told what was purchased with them.

          1. Mariah April 21, 2011

            i was wondering much the same thing. since i just began writing i just got my first letter. it seemed pretty generic to me as well…Thank You for getting me writing again.

  96. Mary Manteuffel March 10, 2011

    Wonderful idea to invite friends. Is it possible to get a list of sponsors in my area?

    209 E Alexa Court
    Spokane, WA 99207
    509 443-5566

    Or might there be a group already formed?

    Thanks, Mary

    1. Linda T. March 11, 2011

      Mary, if you join ourcompassion.org, you will probably find at least one group devoted to WA sponsors and if there are some in your area, you will be able to find them.

  97. Sue March 9, 2011

    Such a simple idea.. and so brilliant. Thank you so much!!!!

  98. Marlius Telaumbanua March 9, 2011

    May Jesus be with you always….

    Jesus Bless You

  99. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies March 9, 2011

    Remember that it is a good time to send in Easter cards and packages! What are you all sending your sponsored child(ren) for Easter?

    We’re sending a Jesus is Alive coloring book (ordered from CBD) and handmade cards to all nine of our CI kids.

    I have a lot of ideas for goodies you can send along to your CI children on my blog. Click my name in blue and look for “Sending Goodies to Your Sponsored Child” on the right hand side of the page!

  100. Mariah March 8, 2011

    hi!! I didnt even know this existed!! i live in Texas and recently attended a concert in which i heard about Compassion. At the end of the concert i sponsored my first child. I consider him my first, and for now, only son. :)

  101. Emma March 8, 2011

    How long does it take for a letter to be translated and given to the sponsor child? In particular a letter in English translated to Swahili and sent to Tanzania.

    1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies March 9, 2011

      It takes about 2-3 months. The letters have many stops along the way and packages can be held up in customs for weeks sometimes.
      I explained the process on my blog (click my name in blue) in a post called Letter Writing 101.

      1. Emma March 9, 2011

        Wow thats a long time! Thanks for letting me know!

        1. Melissa April 6, 2011

          That’s why it’s a good idea to send birthday and other cards at least 2 months before the official date to ensure timely delivery!

  102. Debbie Beghetto March 8, 2011

    I just mailed mine today :))… Planning to do another letter soon . I receive about 6-7 letters from my beautiful sponsor boy per year. I sent him 7-9 because I love him soooo much.

    1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies March 9, 2011

      That is great that you’re committed to writing! I am sure your child appreciates it!

  103. ~ Sylvia ~ February 15, 2011

    I’m late but both of my kids received a letter. I was worried because I hadn’t heard from my Edwin but im sure I’ll hear from him soon.

    See you all next month – God bless Compassion International, all the children, and all of you.

  104. Victoria February 13, 2011

    This has opened my eyes to how important writing my sponsor child is. I have only recently begun sponsoring through Compassion and have yet to send my first letter. I tried to start writing it and suddenly hit writers block. Do you have tips for a first time sponsor trying to write her first letter?

    1. Melissa April 6, 2011

      My name is _______. I am _____ years old….
      What you do for work, for fun, favorite color, animals, etc. Talk about something you saw that was funny… (pets wear clothes here in the U.S.), prayer requests (your child prays for you!), etc. There is a link on the Compassion website that actually tells ideas for writing. Be encouraged! You’ll love it!!!

    2. Becky February 16, 2011

      First, it’s great that you want to write to your sponsored child! If you go to the top of this blog and click on the ‘about letter writing’ tab, that the amazing Compassion staff set up when they redesigned the blog, then you will find lots of posts about things kids love to hear in letters. One of those posts includes a video from a former child development center director who now is a student at Moody Bible Institute. In a quick sentence or two those posts say that kids love to know your name, where you are from (something as simply as California or specific as San Fransisco is fine, but no street address), your age (don’t feel obligated to put it, you could just say your birthday), if you are married, if you have kids (I am single and mention my parents and siblings), what you do for a job or go to school for as a student, and some of your favorite things (Bible verse, color, food, activity). It may seem really strange writing it at first, but the children will love to receive it. Also, kids LOVE pictures, so a picture of you and if possible postcard/picture of your hometown (scenery is better than pictures of your house that emphasize differences between you and them). Happy letter writing!

      There also are other groups on OurCompassion.org that include topics of things to send your kids as well as lots of journals (aka posts) from other sponsors about what they have written and/or made to send their kids along with what their kids have told them. I strongly recommend joining there. If you have any other specific questions, I’d recommend posting a journal there as you would get lots of answers from sponsors quite quickly, whereas here on the blog not all sponsors, who would love to answer questions like this, will see it to respond.

  105. Jennifer February 13, 2011

    This is so fabulous and motivating! I have thought about being more intentional about writing the letters – to the point of thinking I will set aside a date each month and write letters to our two sponsored children, but it hasn’t come to fruition. Knowing that there is this group is such motivation and accountability – two things that were lacking for me. I’m excited to join and be part of this!

  106. Pat February 11, 2011

    I wrote my letter today! I like the reminder, as so many of us have a hard time remembering how long it has been since we have written. Thanks!

  107. Anne February 11, 2011

    This is a great idea. I have just done my ‘2nd Friday’ on-line letter to our little boy in Kenya. I look forward to receiving ideas on what to include in the monthly letter. Sometimes it can be quite difficult as we no longer have children of our own at home.

  108. Shannon McDade February 10, 2011

    I want to be a part of writing my two children that I sponsor. They both live in Haiti. I live in Somerville,Tn. We are also adopting a little boy from Ethiopia. Here is my blog if you want to follow it.

  109. Viva McIlnay February 10, 2011

    What a great idea. I just read this today so I made it in time for the Feb.11th date. My little boy is from Honduras and is 6 yrs old. He has the face on an angel. I am going on a mission trip there in March and will have a chance to meet him. What a wonderful Gift God has giving to me. I am from Hazel Park Michigan. see you this Friday thanks and God bless.

  110. Danielle Casilac February 9, 2011

    I will most definately be joining you tomarrow. We are located in Spokane, WA and just sponsored a child last month. My husband and i have 1 little girl and won’t be having any more children even though I wanted more, so we decided to sponsor one instead. I already feel as though i have two children. The little girl that we sponsored lives in Haiti and is one year older than my 5 yr old. In fact her birthday was 3 days after I sposored her. It sure is amazing what God can do. I love this idea and will be joining you every 2nd friday. Thank you!!!

  111. Jessica February 9, 2011

    I teared up when i read this, thanks for listening to HIM!! This is extremely helpful to me, i just became a sponsor last month, & I havent wrote her yet. I’m a young single mother of 3 & have a completely full plate! But I will most definately use this to hold me accountable for my new liitle girl!!! Thank you!!

  112. Steven Lumonya February 8, 2011

    This letter writing is so quick and it keeps going and going but I have been wondering why my sponsored lovely girl in India does not write as often as I do.

    1. Nicole February 17, 2011

      Steven, most compassion projects have the kids write letters to their sponsor only three or four times a year. You child is definitely getting your letters and they mean the world to her so please don’t let this discourage you from writing frequently. Having sponsor children write a reply for every letter received when there are 200+ children in the project is impractical (though some projects are able to do this). May God bless the relationship you have with your sponsor child.

      1. Kees Boer February 17, 2011

        In the next few years, each country will implement the reciprocal program. What that means is that when your child receives a letter, they will answer each letter. But they will lower the number of programletters (required letters that each Compassion child writes) that the child will write from 3 to 2 letters. Thus if you write a lot, you will get a lot of letters. I went to Bolivia and then to Holland for a total of 4 1/2 months. When I returned back, there were around 300 letters that I had gotten in that period of time. (The vast majority of them from Bolivia)

  113. Noelle February 8, 2011

    Thanks for the encouragement! Your thoughts really inspired me to reach out to my compassion child more. I will be joining your goal to write every second Friday of the month.

  114. ~ Sylvia ~ February 8, 2011

    Is there a specific time for letter writing? I’m new to this but very interested in participating.

    Thank you, and God Bless!!

    1. Chris Giovagnoni February 10, 2011

      There isn’t a specific time that you have to write. You can write anytime on Friday, and if you happen to write on Thursday or Saturday or Sunday, that’s great too. It’s more of a occasion knowing that you’re sharing the experience with others who are doing the same thing as you on that day.

      Have you had a chance to join the OurCompassion letter-writing group? June posts a suggested theme to incorporate into each month’s letter.

  115. Helene February 8, 2011

    Boy! This e-mail letter writing is quick and easy. I just sent off 3 letters to my boys in Uganda, Tanzania and the Philippines. Too bad we can’t send virtual gifts. :) I, too, commit to writing my children at least once a month. Thanks for the great idea. Watched the video on how much letters mean to the children. I don’t want them to be sad when the mail arrives.

  116. Chrissy February 8, 2011

    I’ll be writing this Friday! What a great idea, June!

  117. Alex February 8, 2011

    I will send a hand written letter (so far all i do is electronic) and send some photo’s

  118. Bev February 8, 2011

    I’ve written to 3 of my kids this week and will write to the other four by Friday. Thanks for the reminder!

    (checking in from California, since you wanted to know where we were all from)

  119. Melissa February 8, 2011

    I mailed one yesterday!

  120. Char Wilcox February 8, 2011

    I, like others, had no idea that my not writing to my Sponsored child could have such an adverse effect. I would like to commit to write to Erick once a month on the second Friday. Thank you for the opportunity to walk with God as I draw closer to him and to Alex.

  121. Derel & Abbey February 7, 2011

    My wife is much better at writing Gemma than I am at writing Moises, having three children of our own it hurts me to think how much I have been letting this little boy down. Thank you for putting this back in prospective. I know I desire a realtionship with God more than the things he blesses us with and that is what these kids want, to know someone out there loves them not just money every month. Thank you again from Hawaii

  122. Linda Chang February 7, 2011

    I’m embarrassed to admit that I have not written my sponsored
    child Rica in the Philippines regularly.Thank you for your idea of
    setting aside the last Friday of each month as a reminder to write

  123. Molly Elizabeth February 7, 2011

    I’ve slacked off on writing and don’t do it as often as i would like. I wrote my two boys a letter last week and i’m going to write my little girl a letter this week! I just wrote it on my calendar for every second Friday to write letters!!! This is a great idea. I know the letters from my kids are full of questions. I feel so bad for the ones who don’t get letters. That just goes to show that sponsoring a child is great but it’s so much more than just giving money every month.

    1. Bonny from FL February 8, 2011

      Hello Molly Elizabeth,
      I have also noted my calendar with a ‘reminder’ on the 2nd Friday of each month. I learned in this group, that in Ethiopia (where my girl is from) they have 13mo. in a year. This Friday, 2/11/11 to us, is the 4th of Yekatit (English pronunciation), 2003 there!
      And thank you, everyone, for the great ideas on the little things we can enclose with our letters.

  124. Leesa February 7, 2011

    What a great idea. I like the idea of a set time. I have good intentions but if I don’t have an appointment I often push aside things I should do for things I need to do. I’ll put in on my calendar now.

  125. Melody February 7, 2011

    Sad! I used to be really good about writing my little girl, but I’ve slacked off the past few months. I just sent out a letter, but I’m going to make sure I write more often!

  126. Kees Boer February 7, 2011

    I used to write twice a month to all of my children, but just recently I found out that some young children, under the age of 10 can take quite a long time to answer the letters (Of course this is only with the reciprocal countries) It can take them 4 hours to answer a letter. So, I’ve changed them to once a month.
    Also, I found in the centers that they don’t really do a mailcall perse. The child, when they go to the project, someone will tell them that there is a letter for them. So, many times, the other children don’t know necessarily. Remember that about 10% of the children get a letter any given month. So, an average project of about 200, will get about 20 letters each month or 5 a week. Many times, they arrive weekly. So, only 2 1/2 % of a project will get a letter that week.

  127. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies February 7, 2011

    Please, please, remember to write often! Many of us aim to write twice a month so that our children never go through Mail Call with the disappointment of not having their name called. Make those kids feel special and loved by sending encouragement. You don’t have to wait until Friday! If you need inspiration, check out my blog: http://meeshimama.blogspot.com/

  128. Jenn L January 14, 2011

    I just sent off my e-mail letters moments ago. Happy to join you all this time around as the second Friday falls close to the 15th, when I send the e-mail letters. My goal is to write actual physical letters on/around the first of each month and then send e-mail notes on/around the 15th. God bless.

  129. David Connelly January 14, 2011


    Chilly North Carolina? Try fridget Western New York (Rochester) 😉 We have a wonderful young lady (just turned 14) that we sponor from El Salvador. We started sponsoring her when she was 7. It is amazing to watch them grow through letter writing. In the beginning, their letters are simple, often assisted by staff. As they grow and mature, you can see the impact you have on their lives by how they respond to specific questions. When they are so young, it is sometimes difficult to write because you don’t know how much they understand. But is is important to lay that foundation so that when they do get older, they can appreciate you and the process. And more importantly, the love of God…

  130. sue January 14, 2011

    Wow! I never go to the blog tab on the home page and today i did and i am thankful that i did so. i DO write my little girl and i often wonder, does she like receiving these from me? now i know that she does as i have read this blog article. i am going to continue to write, and write even more frequently thanks!

  131. Karen Cartlidge January 14, 2011

    What a great idea! I’ve been telling myself I needed to get more organized with my letter writing to my beautiful little girl in Peru! Thanks for the motivation! I’ll be writing tonight from chilly North Carolina! Glad bless you for bringing the 2nd Friday of the month idea!

  132. Kelly January 13, 2011

    This is a great idea! I need a way to stay accountable with writing my child. I never want to think of him being sad because we have not sent a letter recently. Thanks!

  133. Meghan January 12, 2011

    I’ll be joining you on Friday from Oklahoma! I love the idea of setting aside a special day each month to write my kids. I sponsor children in Ethiopia, Togo, and Haiti.

  134. Kristen January 10, 2011

    I’m in! This will help me to write to my two boys regularly. Thank you!

  135. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies January 7, 2011

    It always brings JOY to my heart to see sponsors taking the letter writing part of this ministry and making it a priority. The sponsorship payment is what funds the programs, but it is your LETTERS filled with love and encouragement that start to change the heart of these young people. Poverty tells them they are worhtless and unimportant. YOU have the power and the proveledge to tell them otherwise. Please, make a commitment to write regularly, at LEAST once a month. It really makes all of the difference.

  136. Harriet Clark January 7, 2011

    what a great idea! I pray for my ‘little man’ in Thailand, but writing to him has not been a priority.
    I know I need structure, and written reminders, so thank you, thank you!

  137. Paress Bynoe January 7, 2011

    such a great idea. would love to connect with sponsors in the caribbean

  138. Betsy December 10, 2010

    I am excited to join this group! Our sponsered child is in Tanzania.

  139. Donna December 10, 2010

    I finally wrote a letter today and looked on the website too. Had been trying to get around to writing for a few months. What a confirmation as this is the “second Friday” afternoon and my letter is written and ready to mail! Great idea to give us a specific date each month.

  140. Audrey December 10, 2010

    For the past year or so, I have been trying to send a letter every month to my child. I have been quite successful up until this month. I have not sent a letter in 2 months. I started writing one this week, and when I came across this article, I became excited about what you are doing, and (it being the second Friday of the month) I am going to finish and send my letter today. I hope to continue this every month!

  141. Debra Hreniuc December 10, 2010

    I just sponsored a 5 year old boy from Ecuador. I’m glad to have found this virtual letter writing and to know from others how important it is to send frequent letters to establish and maintain the relationship with my child. I am writing my first hand written letter today for introduction and then after will also use this virtual letter writing for contacts. Thank-you!!!

  142. Lori December 9, 2010

    I just finished my 1st letter to our brand new sponsored child Karla in El Salvador. We are 1st time sponsors. We live in Alaska and our family is already so blessed by Karla. We have had no correspondence yet but have spent time each day in prayer for this precious child and her family.

  143. Melissa Martin December 9, 2010

    I believe this is a wonderful idea! The children need to know that they are loved and thought of! I am so thankful for the child God placed in my life! I only hope that through my love for her and my spnsorship she will grow closer to God, letting him guide her life! I will be participating in this! Thank you for this opportunity! Bless You all!!

  144. Amy December 9, 2010

    Thank you so much for the reminder. I will be joining you tomorrow and writing a letter in Texas.

  145. Philip December 8, 2010

    That is a great idea! I will join you and see if the other sponsors at my church would like to join you as well! Thanks for everything you do! The impact we are making by showing these kids the living examples of God’s love is incredible! =) I will now write at least a letter every second friday to my little girl in Ethiopia all because of the work you have done.

  146. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies December 8, 2010

    I can’t even explain how HAPPY it makes me to see so many sponsors commit to writing to their kids! Ah, it just lifts me right up! I just posted a blog about the letters and neat boxes we’re sending out on Friday. Click my name in blue to check it out!
    These letters will bring smiles and joy to your children. What an amazing thing you’ve started, June!

  147. Shalea December 7, 2010

    Yes, I will join you in writing a letter to my sponsored child, this Friday, the 10th. I live in Wisconsin, and sponsor a little boy in Nicaragua. Thank you so much for being faithful and obedient to the call God placed on your heart, for starting this! It’s wonderful. I will definitely be writing to my child the second Friday of every month.
    The Lord bless you!!

  148. christy inman December 7, 2010

    Thank you for the reminder of how important it is to write to our kids, this post was just the slap in the face I needed to be inspired to write more often. I will defenitly be joining everyone every second friday of the month to write! :) Thank you for listening to God’s will and organizing this.

  149. Char Bell December 7, 2010

    AMEN Ladies!! I teach school and I usually have NO time to call my own because of grading papers etc…. UNTIL this year!! I was asked to go to Kindergarten to fill an unexpected need at the last minute. I have taught 26 years upper grades and have AVOIDED Kindergarten– I found out that I LOVE teaching Kindergarten and the evenings are now mine!! I have been so bad about writing as often as I should. I commit myself to the 2nd Friday of each month. AMEN. What wasn’t a GOOD THING will now be a BLESSING!! Just like Christ to do that!!

  150. Cris White December 7, 2010

    I plan, also, to write my two sponsored children at least once a month. If anyone could please help me with a ministry that I started in 2008, I would appreciate it. I have a small handmade jewelry business from which I donate all of my profits to Compassion. Most of it goes to my two sponsored children, but I would love to sell more jewelry so that I can sponsor more children. Please stop by my blogsite if you would like to see my jewelry and enable my business to help Compassion. I have already cleared this idea with Compassion International and they have agreed to letting me post their info and logo to my blogspot. http://www.cris-white.blogspot.com Thanks. Cris

    1. Kees Boer December 7, 2010

      Hi, Cris,

      That is awesome. I’m actually thinking about this idea and was talking with Compassion about it. I tutor students in Mathematics. I would love to tutor students and give all the proceeds to pay for Compassion sponsorships and if I get enough to sponsor additional children.

  151. Kathy Robinson December 6, 2010

    I commit ! I think it will help us all remember to actually DO it if we have a target date to write the kids. Count me in!

  152. Michelle December 6, 2010

    This is an awesome idea! I just sent out a letter and a couple pictures today. As I look back I am ashamed with how little I have written or how long it has taken me to send our little guy a picture. Breaks my heart to think that he is sad we haven’t been in contact more so I am planning to write him each month!

  153. Tarasia November 12, 2010

    I sponsor a girl from Kenya. It has been a blessing to our children to learn about another country. Our family will be taking part in the writing tonight from Salmon Idaho.

  154. Steven Lumonya November 12, 2010

    It is indeed great being part of the wide family of Compassion sponsors. I sponsor a pretty child that lives in India. My desire is to see her grow and support herself, family and community. She has been a blessing to us since we start sponsoring her. I want to express my commitment to be part of this letter writing group. I am based in Africa – Uganda where I live and work though registered as a US sponsor.

  155. Deb Chitwood November 11, 2010

    I LOVE the idea of having a set time – along with online fellowship – for writing letters each month! I’m from Colorado Springs and will be writing to our three sponsored children in Bolivia, Indonesia, and Nicaragua.

  156. Noelle November 11, 2010

    Just sent ours an e-mail message but will send a hand written one Friday night!! From NC to El Salvador and the Philippines!!

  157. Kathryn November 11, 2010

    I will join you tomorrow (in WA). Thanks for the reminder of how much it means to the children. Your story brings this reality to life for me.

  158. Whitney November 11, 2010

    I’ll be joining from California (although I may not be able to write until Saturday!)

  159. Linda November 11, 2010

    I love the idea! I will be writing from New Jersey. I just sponsored my first two children ~ a girl and a boy from Bolivia, so these will be my first letters to them!

    Thank you for creating this group!

  160. Linds November 11, 2010

    I will be writing to my boy in Ethiopia. I live in England!

  161. David Connelly November 11, 2010

    To all the veterans out there, Happy Veterans Day. I appreciate all that you do and did. I served 10 years in the U.S. Army and proud of my service.


  162. Kevin Dochterman November 10, 2010

    Love writting to my 43 children. I always write to all 43 once a month. this month I’am turning it up a notch. I set a goal to write 100 letters this month. Through today ( November 10) I have 34 done. I’am writting letters everyday this month so YES I will for sure be writting a few friday.

    1. David Connelly November 11, 2010


      43 Children! WOW! God sure has blessed you and through you the children you sponsore.

      Fairport, NY

  163. Rebecca November 10, 2010

    I am so ashamed of myself for not writing more often to my little girls!! count me in for this friday – and right now!!

  164. Ryan November 10, 2010

    I plan on doing this, this is an awesome idea. Gracias June

  165. j November 10, 2010

    Great idea – we will be glad to plan on letter writing every second friday of every month – thanks for the inspiration!

  166. Sarah Kaye Ybanez November 10, 2010

    Hi there! I’m a Christian living in the middle east, I’ve seen Compassion website through a Christian show (how amazing God infiltrates in a muslim country!!) & I’ve just newly sponsored a darling little boy from Brazil just last week I’ve stumbled this post & this really helped a lot. :-) God Bless you this is really exciting.

    Love and Prayers,
    Doha, Qatar

    1. June Gauss November 10, 2010

      Sarah-This is amazing how God has led you to Compassion and to sponsor your little boy in Brazil. I am so excited that you are joining us in writing on Friday! Congratulations on your new sponsorship. I know it will be an amazing relationship that God is going to use in great ways!!! Blessings to you my sister!

  167. Heidi Morgan November 10, 2010

    Count me in! I’m from North Carolina, and I just became a sponsor to Nellys in Colombia.

  168. James November 9, 2010

    What a great Idea, sounds like a great time for me and my daughters.

  169. Kathryn November 9, 2010

    I will be writing to my Bridget in Uganda (5), Igor in Brazil (6), Eko in Indonesia(12) and my newest addition: Johana in Nicaragua(10), all the way from ‘Down Under”- Australia!!

  170. Gloria Reddick November 9, 2010

    I think it’s a great idea, I’m excited.

  171. Carolyn Townley November 9, 2010

    Forgot. I live in The Woodlands, Texas, and Luis is in Colombia – now 12 years old.

  172. Carolyn Townley November 9, 2010

    What a wonderful idea! I needed this push. I have been writing for my child’s birthday in July and for Christmas, but I see that is really not enough. Thank you! I wish there was some way for you to kick me when I forget!!

    1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies November 10, 2010

      I am so glad to read that you will be writing more often because of this. Your child is eagerly awaiting their name to be called on mail day! What joy there will be when your child receives more letters from you!

  173. Dawn Stephens November 9, 2010

    By the way, I’m in Dallas and Mariam is in Tanzania!

  174. Dawn Stephens November 9, 2010

    I plan on writing my child this Friday and love this month’s theme. Thanks for setting this up!

  175. Doris November 9, 2010

    This is AWESOME! So excited to have fresh ideas and monthly themes to help me with my “for real” letters (those NOT sent via e-mail)!

  176. Tina November 9, 2010

    Oops, I forgot to mention . . . I am in San Diego and Vivi is in Togo, Africa.

  177. Tina November 9, 2010

    Count me in for Friday! I love being part of this program and we have been so blessed to be able to correspond with Vivi – her letters are beautiful and they always brighten my day! : )

  178. Shelly Duffey November 9, 2010

    I am definitely in!!! I’m writing from Edinburg, Texas to Thailand.

  179. samuel ferrell November 9, 2010

    I am looking forward to writing and hearing from my sponsored friend, Iran.

  180. Cheryl Curtis November 9, 2010

    This is a great idea..I had only been sending lettters sporadically…thank you for your encouragement to do so every month…. We are from Maine and our girl is in Equador.

  181. Alexandr November 9, 2010

    Oh, it’s a great idea, I will also take part in this!

  182. Kathy Dickens November 9, 2010

    count me in! I love writing my child but never realized that I could send so many things to her! Can I send the paper highlight books? My daughter has some that she has already read. Would be great to send them to Zulma.

    1. Tina November 9, 2010

      I would love ideas of things we can send. So far I’ve sent photos, handmade cards, a coloring book and handmade bookmarks.

      1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies November 9, 2010

        Check out my blog: http://meeshimama.blogspot.com You’ll find a link on the right hand side of that blog called “Sending Goodies to you Sponsored Child” and I have a LOT of ideas there!!

  183. Julie November 9, 2010

    What a lovely reminder! I’m in! I live in Belgium, and I am writing to Theresia in Tanzania! Thanks!

  184. Noel November 9, 2010

    What a great idea! I’m doing it!

  185. Judy Webste November 9, 2010

    I would really like to do this.

  186. Brenna November 8, 2010

    I would love to do this!

    I am from OH and I will be writing to the Philippines.

  187. David Connelly November 8, 2010

    Hi June:

    What a great idea! I logged in to write to my sponsored child and to send birthday $ for her birthday in January. Her name is Monica Elizabeth Hernandez and she is from El Salvador, I missed writing in September, per your invitation, but will start participating every 2nd Friday starting in November. David

    1. June Gauss November 10, 2010

      Thank you for your comment and that you will be joining us on Friday. I know your relationship with Monica will flourish from this committment to write her every month. I loved my time in El Salvador and hugging and loving on the precious children.

  188. Beth November 8, 2010

    This is wonderful! I will be writing to my 2 girls in Ghana and Ethiopia this Friday. :)

  189. Kristin Smith November 8, 2010

    Writing to Estefany in Guatemala from Chattanooga TN. We LOVE sending her letters and pictures– she always comments on them too!

  190. Mark Clinton November 8, 2010

    I would love to join. My child is in Indonesia; is there anything that can be sent to help?

  191. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies November 8, 2010

    I urge you all to send some photos this month! The kids love seeing you! We upload our pictures to walgreens.com and they print them out and have them ready to pick up in less than 15 minutes.
    Also, feel free to check out my blog by clicking my name in blue. I share a lot of letter writing tips and ideas!

  192. Julie Propst November 1, 2010

    I want to join also. Julie Propst in North Carolina. Daughter Emelin in El Salvador.

  193. Julie Propst November 1, 2010

    I have been very lax in writing to my child. I will think about it at work and forget it by the time I get home. Having a group like this will help me more ways than you know. Thank you for listening to God and starting something like this. I am not very computer savvy, but I will do my best to meet with you on Friday night. I will read more on the website on how to do this.

  194. Amy October 29, 2010

    I love this idea! It’s scary how quickly months can go by and I realize I haven’t written a letter to my two sponsor children, one in Colombia and one in El Salvador. I want to write more frequently because I know how much it means to them. Definitely count me in!

  195. Barbara Welsh October 9, 2010

    Just wrote a long letter to my child, Ester, in Kenya. I didn’t mean for it to be so lengthy, but I guess there was a lot I wanted to tell her. I love to sew and am wondering if I can send some gifts to her. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what would be the best way to do this. I know that sending gifts is tricky. Would appreciate any help. Thanks and blessings!

    1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies October 10, 2010

      The items we send have to be classified as documents (paper, thin cardstock etc) so make sure the gifts you send would fit those requirements. I have lots of ideas on my blog. You can also send a financial gift which will allow the family to buy items they need.

  196. Trina October 9, 2010

    Count me in! I will write to my sponsor – one of God’s children, in Indonesia.

  197. Pam October 8, 2010

    Great idea!!!! Count me in and thank-you for the ideas!!! I will write tomorrow after I pick out a Christmas card, buy the supplies to include a craft and print a new picture. We are going to take a picture of his latest letter posted on our refridgerator with our grandson pointing to it.

  198. Suzanne October 8, 2010

    I just wrote my 2 – Irene and Josue from Kenya and Guatemala. I am writing from Plano, TX. I decided to send some pictures from a calendar of landscapes in America.

  199. KB October 8, 2010

    I’ll be joining you tonight in Oregon – I’m posting this info on my facebook page as well so my friends who sponsor children will remember to write!

  200. Bill October 8, 2010

    From Virginia to Colombia. Great idea. How little can mean so much. The Lord takes little things and makes them beatiful. This little angel in Colombia needs prayer, letters, the message of the Lord, and anything that will make her happy. She is so much of a blessing to me. She does more for me than I do for her. Thanks again. Wow today is the second one—-I will start now.

  201. Kim Kuzmkowski October 8, 2010

    YAY! I just wrote a letter and a Christmas card to my sweet boy in Peru. I’m off to the post office to mail them out. I hope he gets them before Christmas. Thanks for this wonderful idea!

  202. Jo Ballew October 8, 2010

    Dear Rosemica.

    Thank you for your last letter. I am glad that you did on your school
    Test. I am relay proud of you. Its good that your family are doing well.

    I pray for you all everyday, your family , your country.

    We are all doing well here. My husband and I are going on trip to
    Mexico for a week end soon.

    My Grand children are get big. Rebecca is now 2 years old. Joey
    is going to be 6 in Dec. And Timothy was 8 this year.

    Take good care and keep on praying.

    Love and payers

    Jo Ballew,

    1. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies October 10, 2010

      That is a great letter! Did you send it to her? (Not sure if you realized you posted it as a response to the blog post and not actually on the Compassion site.)

  203. Melli October 8, 2010

    I just heard about this! I am IN for tonight! I’m writing my sweet girl in Guatemala from Maryland. And I LOVE this idea!

  204. Karen F. October 8, 2010

    Just finished writing in California!
    So thankful for how you have organized us!

  205. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies October 7, 2010

    Remember to add your Christmas greetings to your letters this month! If you’re looking for ideas for goodies you can send as gifts, check out my blog or the Christmas post on Our Compassion!

  206. megank October 7, 2010

    Oh Kimi, I am so sorry for your loss. I am proud of you for seeing, through tears I’m sure, the need your sponsor child has. I believe in my heart this will only become a huge blessing during a hard time. Hugs

    My family will be writing our letter today in northern Oklahoma. This is such a great idea & a great reminder. Thanks.

  207. Nancy October 6, 2010

    Count me in. Writing from North Carolina to my little sweetie in Peru!

  208. Shannon Perry October 6, 2010

    I’m writing to my child, Goodluck. I live in West Virginia =]

  209. Laura October 6, 2010

    I love this idea and have added a reminder to my calendar to begin participating. I have written my sponsored child probably once a quarter but your post makes me realize how important the letters are. Now I’m anxious to write more frequently and be more diligent. I love the craft ideas as well. Thank you!

  210. Michelle Wright October 6, 2010

    June, I am so glad that this has spread like wildfire! I will have to share it on my blog, where I also share lots of ideas for letter writing and sending gifts. I get so excited thinking about all of the kids that will be overjoyed at these monthly letters!!

  211. Teresa October 6, 2010

    I’m in on the letter-writing night. Great idea & I’m looking forward to it. Teresa in Homosassa, Florida

  212. kimi October 6, 2010

    Thank you for this post and Thank God for you! I sponsor 2 children. My second child I have not written too because I lost a child and have been depressed and unable to write…was even going to stop sponsoring due to my lack of unresponsiveness. (Which I know is only the devil). Your letter and group have convinced me to do otherwise. I thank God for you and for your faithfulness. I will begin to write my children this Friday and every second Friday of each month. This has truly been a Godsend! Thanking you in His name, Kimi

    1. June Gauss October 7, 2010

      Oh Kimi, I am so sorry to hear that you have lost a child. I’m praying for you. I pray that starting to write your sponsor children again will help you regain yourself and release your pain. I will be praying for you as you grieve and heal. I appreciate your honesty. God be with you and your family!

    2. Michelle Wright October 6, 2010

      I am sorry for your loss, Kimi!

  213. Maria Momojara October 6, 2010

    I love the idea of setting a day… I´ve been trying to do that but having a group will be so helpful.
    I am in Lima, Peru; and I sponsor 2 beautiful kids, one in Haiti and one in Guatemala.
    Looking forward to Friday!!!

  214. Lynette Smith October 6, 2010

    Hi, I have found it works great for me, to write my letters the day I pay my bill to Compassion. That helps me stay on track!

  215. Nicole October 6, 2010

    This is a great idea! I’m in. :) I’d love to find out what I can send besides bookmarks and stickers.

    1. June Gauss October 7, 2010

      Here is a link to the Compassion list of small gifts you can send with your letters.


    2. Michelle Wright October 6, 2010

      Nicole, I share a lot of ideas on my blog: http://meeshimama.blogspot.com
      Check out the links in the right hand sidebar!

  216. Jamie Fox October 6, 2010

    I really like this idea! I have had trouble staying consistent with my letter writing. I sponsor a little boy in Nicaragua and want to correspond more. I am in Marietta, Ohio.

  217. Annika September 30, 2010

    I am about to send my first letter! But I have been trying to find information about the tiny gifts.
    I am confused since it looks like all the mail is opened, checks taken out but what happens to the (sponsor and child number marked) paper gift?
    Is the gift and letter later put in an envelope for the child? Or is it separated?
    Am I supposed to put the gift and letter in a separate envelope for the child inside of the main “Colorado” envelope?
    Hope you understand the question! I’m just a bit confused how it works!

  218. Ramona September 26, 2010

    I would so LOVE to do this! Sign me up & help me out (whoever has the time or can direct me to the best contact)…I’m new to this group & arrived at Compassion International’s website via recommendation from Amy Grant’s “Friends of Amy” website…after watching Amy’s personal video about the impact it made on her own life (of seeing a young boy grow in mind/body/spirit and become a true leader himself), I was totally inspired. Then, after reading through a few of the posts on the Compassion International website, I’m REALLY excited! I have been praying for months about what God wanted me to do with my love/prayers & heart for writing, and I think this may be it…I had tentatively been doing rough drafts on various topics that God had impressed upon my heart over the years, thinking I’d eventually put them in book form, but this would be spiritually effective SOONER and with a much better chance of being eternally beneficial to souls in need …and also there’s the bonus of skipping the hassels of finding a good publisher and writing endless manuscripts… The Holy Spirit only believes in lifelines vs. deadlines, allows mistakes in grammar & punctuation, and the only payment I make up-front is that my heart is in His hands! PERFECT! …So, I’m standing at the door of Compassion International…asking/seeking/knocking…does anyone hear my voice & want to open the door in His Name? Thank you in advance to whoever chooses to answer the door…Ramona :-)

    1. Anna Pancake September 26, 2010

      Ramona, I’m not real clear from your post if you have a sponsored child yet? If not, that’s definately the starting point. If you already have sponsored a child, then the writing is the fun part. I love to write to my kids, although I feel bad for the poor translators who have to translate for me so often. If no one has introduced you to it yet, let me invite you to join OurCompassion (www,OurCompassion.org) , as that is where the Virtual Group is hosted. If I say so myself, OC is the greatest group of people! I have made so many wonderful friends on OC, and I know you will too.
      I’ll be more than happy to help you with any questions you have, and if i don’t know the answer, I am sure someone on OC does. It has been a wonderful place to have my questions about sponsorship and writing answered, and to share my joy in hearing from my kids.

    2. Kees Boer September 26, 2010

      Hi, Ramona! That is so awesome. Are you saying that you are looking to sponsor a child? The reason being is that I was in Bolivia a few months ago, and I met a child there that got registered and now I am looking for a sponsor for her. Her name is Camila Churata, BO-561-0765. Her birthday is June 30, 2005. She is 5 years old. Camila makes her home with her father and her mother. Running errands and cleaning are her household duties. Her father is sometimes employed as a laborer and her mother maintains the home. There are 4 children in the family.
      Camila is not presently attending school. Playing with dolls is her favorite activity. She also attends church activities regularly.

      If you are interested in sponsoring her, let me know or if you know someone. You can email me at: keescorgi@yahoo.com

  219. James September 16, 2010

    I just did the e-mail letter to my kids last night. What a great idea, maybe I could get more letters from my kids than once every quarter of the year. I am sitting here in tears because one of sponsored childrens Aunt included her picture of my little Joan smiling and showing off the clothes she was able to acquire through my birthday gift.. May the Lord continue to bless your efforts.

  220. Erin September 16, 2010

    I am still new to Compassion but, already one of my greatest joys about it is writing letters to my child. Because I know that most people in the world now don’t care about letters or hearing from someone but to this child my letters are special and appreciated. I intend to keep writing my child at least twice a month.

  221. Steph September 16, 2010

    I just joined Compassion by allowing God to choose a child for me. I love her already and have not even spoken a word yet. I will be joining you every second Friday to write her. I sponsored another child before through another organization and never wrote a letter or received one. I was always concerned with that agency that they just sent a picture of a child the money could potentially help. After reading your message above I hope that was an accurate assumption because if I broke that child’s heart I would be devastated. I will not let down my little sweet princess Tewabech though. I will commit to writing her consistently. Bless your heart for this awareness. May God keep all our sweet angels safe.

  222. Barbara Welsh September 14, 2010

    Thank you so much for sharing. Your post deeply touched me because I find little time to hand-write any notes or letters; though, I am an advocate of hand-written letters. I am quite busy and do still have children at home, so I usually email a letter to my sponsored child. Mind you, this is not as frequently as I’d like. I often reflect upon how I enjoy receiving a letter or card in the mail, along with photos, and so long to do this for my child! Consequently, your idea of writing to your sponsored child once per month will definitely increase my hand-written letters to my child. I have put the second Friday in my planner and plan on writing my hand-written letter to my child with you on that day. Thank you for your idea.
    Happy Writing,
    Barb Welsh

  223. Suzanne September 13, 2010

    I would love to join you all. I am in Plano, TX and I sponsor a little girl in Kenya and just signed up to sponsor a little boy in Guatemala. I need some structure to get me to actually write these letters. Would love some ideas. Thanks.

  224. Jessica September 11, 2010

    I just found out about this group today and wrote my letter. I plan on joining you all each month!

  225. Monica September 11, 2010

    I wrote today! I am in Arizona and I will take this on!

  226. Steve Ray September 11, 2010

    Thank you for the idea! I just marked every 2nd Friday on my Google Calendar “forever”. I’m writing from Waller TX!

    1. Anna Pancake September 11, 2010

      We are starting a Sponsor’s group in College Station, my email is mrspancake (at) live (dot) com if you want more information. I live in Madison County, Tx so we are almost neighbors

  227. Sandy F September 11, 2010

    June, you have encouraged me tremendously. How do I join the virtual group and how does it work? I think if I got an email reminder every second friday telling me it’s time to write, that would be great. Anyway to set that up? Maybe the virtual group already has something like that. Thanks for making yourself available to God and encouraging us in the right direction. You are living out Hebrews 10:24

  228. Tommy D September 11, 2010

    Very cool Idea!
    I write my Child Bruno in Brasil from Charleston, Sc!

  229. Mia September 11, 2010

    Great idea! I’ve just been reading how important letters are to these kids – I will joint you all, as soon as I’m able. I just sponsored 5 year old Fatima yesterday – I can’t wait for this new relationship to begin!!!

  230. Alexia September 10, 2010

    I missed out by one day, but I love the idea and will be writing this weekend AND joining your group. I’m sad to say that I’m not so great at keeping up on letters to my two girls. I want to be better at it and setting aside a certain day/month to write is perfect! And having a group to remind me is even better LOL

  231. Barbara September 10, 2010

    Thank you for letting the Lord use you to help others share the love of Christ! What a great idea, and I am thankful for it will keep me accountable also! I write from Louisiana

  232. Melissa Stephens September 10, 2010

    What is this I’m reading about craft ideas? I seem to recall seeing a link somewhere but now I can’t find it. Thanks!

    1. June Gauss September 11, 2010

      Click on the blue words above in the blog post that say “stop by the group in OurCompassion” and it will take you to the group which has pictures of the past craft projects. You can also look through the events section for the past months and find the description/directions for the crafts.

  233. Melissa Stephens September 10, 2010

    I wrote my child tonight! He is in Rwanda and I am in Dallas, TX. His birthday is coming up, so I mostly wrote about his birthday and my son’s birthday (also coming soon). In addition to that, I wrote about sports. He likes soccer and my son just started playing soccer. I also told him a bit about American football. Thanks so much for this wonderful idea!

  234. Christine September 10, 2010

    What a great idea! We “just happened” to write to our child today. My 18 mo. old was climbing furniture determined to get to something! That something was our child’s photograph album. So, I realized, what a great opportunity to talk about her and have the girls write to her along with me. We also uploaded photos to print out and pick up this afternoon and added some recent artwork. I need to do it all in one day or I let the whole project slide! Thanks for the inspiration to make this a monthly activity and join with others who do the same.

  235. The Bealls September 10, 2010

    I was also just thinking tonight that by next month we need to be sending Christmas themed greetings since a minimum journey of 2 months of the letter getting to the kids will be just about Christmas time! : )

  236. Suzanne Wesley September 10, 2010

    We are new sponsors to a little boy in Guatemala, and this was our first time signing on to CI to try and send him an e-mail. Love this idea of regular writing. I was assuming before that we had to wait months to hear back before writing again. We hail from Terre Haute, Indiana and look forward to being a part of this virtual group committed to regular communication with our sponsored child. What a great idea :)

  237. Jill September 10, 2010


    Thank you so much for your encouraging words. We just sponsored our first little girl a couple months ago. We have written to her but have not heard anything back. I am so worried that our letter did not arrive to her.

    We pray for her and have adopted her as our new little sister as well as a new older sister.

    Thank you again for your words of encouragement and I will continue to write to her and send her pictures. My 8 year old drew and colored a picture for her.

    God Bless,
    in Tuscaloosa, AL

  238. Deanna September 10, 2010

    BTW – I’m in Colorado

  239. Deanna Wine September 10, 2010

    This is such an awesome (God) idea! I’m writing to both of my sponsored kids tonight – thanks!

  240. Katie September 10, 2010

    Writing tonight with my daughter!

  241. Emily September 10, 2010

    I am a new sponsor, and I now I’m even more excited to get to know the girl I am sponsoring. I will write my first letter to her tonight, and will be marking my calendar every secnd Friday! Thank you for starting this, I think it will be a great way to hold myself accountable!

  242. melissa September 10, 2010

    I am writing right now!

  243. Teena September 10, 2010

    I’m in. Are you planning this for snail mail or for online sending. We write our little boy from Indonesia… about every month or 3 wks or so…..

    I didn’t know we could send items??

    thanks so much

    in Georgia

  244. Octavia September 10, 2010

    I have three children that I sponsor and three correspondent children that I write to. My initial letter to each of the children included a photo of myself along with a postcard of my city. I usually write to them once a month the longest I have gone without writing them is two months. I usually send bandaids, stickers, coloring pages etc… I always make a note in my letter to share those items with others who have not received correspondence from their sponsors or other siblings in their household. I have received a great response to my letters and small gifts included from all of the kids with the exception of one. Most of my letters are now in response to a letter received and I try to mail them off at least a day or two after I have received them.

  245. Dawn September 10, 2010

    I will certainly try this great idea! I’m in New York.

  246. Christi September 10, 2010

    I just wrote my little boy. Thank you SO much for the encouragement. I have been probably the worst communicator ever with poor sweet Fernando over the last 5 years. This was an excellent idea!! Thank you, June!
    Irving, TX

  247. Bonny September 10, 2010

    This is a great idea, and will help with ‘accountability’. I am glad to hear about the 8 x 11 envelopes, I too thought everything had to fit in the letter envelope. My former child left the program, and I now have a ‘new child’ from Ethiopia, Age 8. My name is Bonny, from Sunrise, FL. June, you may have thought this was a ‘small’ idea, but you are doing His good work. God bless you all.

  248. Linda September 10, 2010

    This is truly a Spirit-inspired idea and I am so thankful to be able to join-in with all of you to REGULARLY shine a tiny bit of light and love into the life of a child. It’s on my calendar and Linda (from Michigan) is so thrilled to join this awesome group!

  249. ANNETTE September 10, 2010


  250. Danielle September 10, 2010

    What a wonderful idea for the letter writing group to go virtual. My children and I try to write out child at least 2 times a month. We have only received 2 letters from our child in Rwanda since sponsoring him. (6 months). I know how exited my children, ages 12, 9 and 7 get when a letter from Kevin arrives. I can only imagine the joy that Kevin is filled with when a letter from our family comes to him! I thank God for Compassion and this INCREDIBLE ministry!
    I am thrilled to be able to write online to our young man today. This will be our first time!
    Corona, CA

  251. Lea September 10, 2010

    This is a great idea and I hope it encourages others to write. I found that when I do my bill the first of every month that is a good time while I am at the computer to write my child. It is such a blessing to get letters in return and to watch our child grow up in Christ.

  252. Amy September 10, 2010

    I’m in! We just started sponsoring 2 precious children from Nicaragua and Bolivia. So these will be our first letters…and we’re so excited! We were planning on writing this weekend anyway, but now I know we’ll be jointing lots of other sponsors in loving on these children today! Very cool….God is like that! :-)
    Oh, and we’re in Texas.

    1. Anna Pancake September 11, 2010

      Amy, what part of Tx? I am in the College Station area, and we are getting a Sponsor’s group started (so far 3 of us) I also go to Temple at least 2x a month, so I would participate in one there as well, if someone else handled setting it up…one is all I can organise at this point in my life. Email me if you are interested mrspancake (at) live (dot) com

  253. Doreen September 10, 2010

    I’ve been feeling pretty bad that I don’t write my sponsored children as often as I should. It’s kind of hard I have 12. I always try to write different things to each so that they don’t think it’s a “generic” letter to all of them (some are siblings and friends). It’s hard to make each different, but I will with God’s help make sure my kids get regular encouragement from me! I believe God spoke to my heart through you. Thank you June.

  254. The Bealls September 10, 2010


    Thank you for the link to all the information on what small items can be sent! I can’t wait to tell my boys they can send “gifts” with their letters as they have been begging to do!

    Also, I am unfamiliar with what others have been describing as children they correspond with versus children they sponsor. I would love to take on another child if it is specifically for sending them love and encouragement through letters. Can you tell me where to go to find out more about that?

    Sorry for all the questions, but you have been a tremendous resource and encouragement for me!

    Michaelene in GA

    1. June Gauss September 11, 2010

      Michaelene-I just found this blog post about being a correspondence sponsor. Here’s some additional information: http://blog.compassion.com/write-to-a-child/

    2. June Gauss September 11, 2010

      Michaelene-I’m not sure where you can find it on Compassion’s website but I know that I called and asked if I could correspond with a child (after I heard about it from another sponsor). I had to go on a waiting list but it didn’t take long. My suggestion is to call the 1-800 phone number and the representative can tell you more about it.

  255. Jen September 9, 2010

    I just wrote my 2 girls a few days ago… but i will be happy to write again tomorrow

    I’m from Connecticut

  256. Holly September 9, 2010

    I needed to hear this June. I have good intentions, but have had very poor follow through. Every other Friday night works perfectly as I alternate Bible study on the other Friday nights. Now Asmaow will get the encouragement she needs and deserves. Thank you and may God bless this idea.

  257. Donna September 9, 2010

    I’m writing. I’m in Eastland Texas

    1. Anna Pancake September 11, 2010

      Donna, I am not sure where Eastland is exactly…I am in the College station area, and we are trying to get together a Sponsor’s group to encourage one another and write/shop together. feel free to email me if you are interested mrspancake (at) live (dot) com

      1. Donna October 4, 2010

        Hi Anna, just noticed your post today. Eastland is between Abilene and Fort Worth on I 20. I lived in College Station earlier- such a pretty town!

      2. Susan Martin September 15, 2010

        Hey Anna, just thought you might be interested in a Sponsor’s Round-Up that is being planned on OC. All sponsors from everywhere are welcome. We have a lot already very interested and said We’d love to have you too. there have been several journals on this so you might want to check them out. We are friends on OC, so, if you can’t find the journals, let me know.

        1. Anna Pancake September 15, 2010

          That’s actually what encouraged me to try to set up an East Texas group…figure if we all gather yearly, and the smaller local groups meet monthly/bimonthly/quarterly we can work together to spead the contagion called “Sponsoritis” LOL…speaking of, got an opportunity to do a mini-presentation to one of the local Church Choirs today!

  258. Michaela Anderson September 9, 2010

    Hi there! We’ve been sponsoring a young lady in Colombia several years and are from Grand Rapids, MN. I think this is a wonderful idea and hope someone will remind everyone tomorrow via facebook!

  259. Vicki Small September 9, 2010

    Love this! I can’t write to six kids–or, occasionally, to the two boys my husband sponsors–all in one night, but I keep trying to find a kind of schedule I can stick to, so I write to everybody, every month. I even started a spreadsheet to keep track of when I wrote to each one.

    I’m also starting a Compassion Life Group at my church, with the idea of a quarterly or monthly (depending on demand) letter-writing event. A quarterly get-together would be a good adjunct to a monthly, virtual experience for those who can and are interested in joining.

    Wouldn’t it be neat, if everyone who joins the virtual group would eventually branch out to meet with other local sponsors for the same purpose? 😉

  260. Karen September 9, 2010

    This is a great idea–consider me in!

  261. Jeannette Peterson September 8, 2010

    Thanks for this, I wrote to my kids a few weeks ago, but it is a good reminder to write.
    If I have time I’ll write again.

  262. Patricia September 8, 2010

    I live in Houston and would like to be more consistent in writing my sponsored children, too.

  263. Doug West September 8, 2010

    Love the idea! I’m in Greensboro NC. Ever think of changing the name from the Virtual Child Sponsorship Letter Writing Group to something like the 2nd Friday’s (club or group)? It may make people look into what it is and draw them in and I am all for anything that will increase the letters to th kids. I’ve sent time with too many who don’t get any letters!

  264. Crystal September 8, 2010

    I will write three letters this Friday – on to our sponsored child in Brazil, one to our previously sponsored child who has left the program (I’m sad about that) and one to a young woman in Ethiopia to whom I send letters. I’m glad to be encouraged and held accountable by the group.

  265. April B. September 8, 2010

    Great idea..and great incentive to find something “special” to mail once a month. Oh and thanks for the link for the stationary..I wasn’t even aware until today that there was any available..cool!

  266. Carol Hallifax September 8, 2010

    Count me in on Friday. This is a great idea. I am an advocate from Kansas City. God is surely doing more than you could ask or imagine,

  267. Valerie D. September 8, 2010

    I’m from Virginia. I’ve been a sponsor since the first part of the year, but this is the first I’ve done anything online. I like the idea of writing with everyone on the 2nd Friday. I’ll be there!

  268. The Bealls September 8, 2010

    I have a question of clarification…I understood that you could only send items that were flat in the envelopes, but maybe I assumed that you could only send items in the small legal sized envelopes. I’ve read a few things lately that make me think you can actually send larger manilla envelopes with your items (coloring books, etc.) in them. Is this correct?

    1. June Gauss September 9, 2010

      Here is a link to a suggestion of items you can send from Compassion’s website.


      I have sent coloring books, photos pasted on 8 1/2 x 11 cardstock, as well as crafts the same size. I’ve sent them in manilla envelopes just larger than 8 1/2 x 11 paper. Plus I have 4 kids which I send everything together at one time to Compassion. I hope this information is helpful!

    2. Michelle September 8, 2010

      We send our letters in a larger manilla envelope.

  269. ROSEMARY September 8, 2010

    I will be glad to join. I think it’s a wonderful idea.
    God Bless you and all those that see God’s face in these children. My husband and I sponsor children in Africa, Bolivia, Chile and Haiti and sometimes wonder what to write or send them.

  270. Brian Smith September 8, 2010

    I need all the help I can get, Thank you!

  271. Marci September 8, 2010

    Hello, June…and everyone else! I joined in last month’s letter writing and I really liked the idea, so you’ll have me joining in every month from now on. I write to Arthur all the time (sometimes I wonder if I write too much?) but this is a fun idea to make us both part of a world wide writing celebration that shows that he’s extra special and part of something *really big*. I’ll label each letter that is written on the second Friday as “Celebration Letter” so he knows I’ve included us in the world wide sponsorship celebratioin every month! Just another way to help a little one know he’s special and important. :)

    I’m writing from New Smyrna Beach, Florida…so, there is no way I could make it to your house every month! Thank you for putting this out there for everyone in the virtual realm.

  272. Jennifer September 8, 2010

    I will try to remember to do that. I’m in Ramsey, MN. I like the idea of writing once a month.

  273. Perry Hughes September 8, 2010

    My wife and I just began the sponsor relationship through Compassion. We are excitedly awaiting our start up packet. Thanks for your encouragement and challenge to be consistent with writing letters. We will be much more focused on writing once a month because of your blog. Thanks for helping us get started on the right foot!
    -Perry from NC

  274. Win September 8, 2010

    We sponsor 5 kids and I rotate through them writing one each weekend. I will write mine this Friday too. Writing from Broken Arrow, Oklahoma.

  275. Linda Wrage September 7, 2010

    This was such an inspirational post. I have been struggling to write letters to my kids lately. I have joined your group on OurCompassion and am looking forward to the motivation helping me get on a regular schedule of letter writing. It’s a really great idea. I have been wishing for something like this. Thanks! I’m in Milwaukee, WI.

  276. Terry Gardezy September 7, 2010

    What a great idea! I have been a sponsor since May, and have only written one letter. I did not realize how much they meant to the children until reading your letter. I would love to join your group and be reminded to do this. I will forward this on to some of my other Compassion sponsor friends. Thank you for your loving heart. I will j oin your group today.
    Terry Gardezy, Santa Rosa CA

  277. Maggie September 7, 2010

    I’ll write on Friday from Chicago! I usually write on Mondays but I’m sure extra letters would be wonderful for my kids! Thanks for sharing your passion and encouraging deeper relationships between us and the kids we sponsor.

  278. Crissy September 7, 2010

    This is a great idea! I am a brand new sponsor, haven’t even received my child’s packet yet but I’m expecting it any day now. Can anyone tell me how long it takes for a hand written letter to be delivered to Tanzania, my child’s birthday is in Nov and I’m hoping to get it to him by then. I live on a US Navy base in Sasebo, Japan.

    1. Win September 8, 2010

      Crissy – you should expect it to take about 3 months for hand written letters to reach the child and about 2 months if you write it on line. To reach the child by November you should write on line and then you could also mail a card with a note too.

  279. Brenda September 7, 2010

    I was so excited to find out about this virtual letter writing group. It’s great inspiration to keep us on track with our letters to our Compassion children, and we might get some great ideas from one another to make our letters fresher. Thanks for doing this, June. I’m in California and will be writing away with the rest of you.

  280. Nicole September 7, 2010

    Count me in for writing this Friday! This is a great idea and it will hopefully keep me from procrastinating. Thanks for your stories about visiting the children and seeing their letters or lack thereof. That really made an impression on me and I am determined to keep up my correspondence!

  281. Michelle September 7, 2010

    June, I am so happy to see this idea taking off! It will make such a difference for the children! If anyone would like ideas for topics for letters or items you can send along, clicking my name will take you to my blog. I aim to share letter writing ideas monthly! 😀
    Thank you to everyone who is pledging to write at least once a month!! 😀

  282. Brianna September 7, 2010

    I have not written to my sponsored child very frequently in the past, but I like the idea of having a day each month to sit down and write to him. I am from San Diego, California and I am sponsoring a boy in Ethiopia who just turned 9.

  283. Sarah September 7, 2010

    Thank You for being faithful to the Lord’s calling! This has encourageed me tremendously! I have had so much going on since I bagn sponsering my child that I am so sad to say I haven’t written to her. But I am today and will continue you to once a week from now on ! Thank you for the encouragement!

  284. June Gauss September 7, 2010

    I’m happy to see so many people committed to writing their child(ren) this month. YEAH!!! If you are unable to commit to Friday, please write your chil(ren) any day this week that works for your schedule. I’d love to see more sponsors committing to writing their child(ren) monthly.

  285. Diane Nichols September 7, 2010

    Yes, writing letters on the computer is quicker and easier but I usually hand write for every letter they handwrite to me. I also handwrite when I am sending them something special like stickers, etc, also I handwrite on Christmas cards, Birthday cards, etc. I guess since I am retired have time to handwrite to our 4 sponsored girls and our 5 correspondence children. I can express myself better when I write anyway. I plan to write this Friday as well but I usually try to write all of them at least 2 times a month.

  286. Lisa Miles September 7, 2010

    Great idea! I’m joining in.

  287. Sarah Sch September 7, 2010

    Count me in! I will be handwriting letters to my two sponsored girls and two correspondence boys this weekend from Macon, GA!

  288. Tiffany Aurora September 7, 2010

    This is awesome, June! What a great, practical but fun idea! I make it my goal to write my kids once a month. I can’t do Fridays but I will be writing my kids during the second week of every month right along with you. Just wrote to them today, thanks to your post. Thank you for reminding us of how important it is to write!!!

  289. Stephanie September 7, 2010

    Thanks for the inspiration!! I’m making a commitment to write my sponsor child at least once a month! :)

  290. Judy September 7, 2010

    What a great idea for a group. I’m there! :)

  291. Stephanie Green September 7, 2010

    Thanks, June. I will be writing this Friday! I am in Virginia.

    Haven’t checked to see what the theme is yet but since today is the first day of school here, that will likely be my topic. Happy writing, everyone!

  292. Sherron September 7, 2010

    Count me in! I’m in Frisco, Texas.

    1. Anna Pancake September 7, 2010

      I’m north of College Station, Tx and am working on Getting a Texas Sponsor’s meet up started…right now there are 2 of us, but we would love to add more!

  293. semmie September 7, 2010

    Oh yeah, baby…I’m in!

  294. Wendy September 7, 2010

    What a great way to start the weekend. I will be writing from TN. I will also join your group on OC.

  295. Melissa P. September 7, 2010

    I will write on Friday from Colorado! I love theme ideas and accountability. Thank you!

  296. Susan Rodenbaugh Martin September 7, 2010

    Yes, yes I want to join! How does this work? I am from North Carolina. Do we all somehow write/type at the same time? Do we all write about the same designated topic? Bless you for doing this, June!

    1. June Gauss September 7, 2010

      Hi Susan-The concept is to simply write your child every second Friday of the month. It doesn’t matter in what manner you write, whether it be a handwritten letter or online. The topic for the month is found in the Events area in the Virtual Letter Writing Night group. Note: The topic/theme for each month is merely a suggestion.

  297. Michele Therrien September 7, 2010

    This is a great idea. I’m getting stuck with ideas for letters and especially little gifts to send to my child.

  298. Denise Jones September 7, 2010

    Thank you June. I will be writing. I am in Oklahoma.

  299. Valerie Long September 7, 2010

    I’m going to join Sherry W. and write my kids on Saturday. I’m working until 9pm Friday night which will make it a bit difficult to do it Friday, but I’m off on Saturday so I’m thinking I’ll do it then! :) What a great idea though! Thanks for sharing. :)


    1. Sherry W. September 7, 2010

      Valerie – “See” ya on Saturday!

  300. Angela September 7, 2010

    Yes! I will write my sponsored child the 2nd Friday each month. I am in Fishers, Indiana.

  301. Jill Foley September 7, 2010

    I’ll join – Writing my kids letters was on my list of things to do this week so Friday is perfect. I’m in Oregon.

    1. Linda July 22, 2014

      Hi Jill,
      I’m a former Oregonian, Portland/Gresham. Retired to Maui. I sponsor 2 children in Burkina Faso. I get excited when I see other Oregonians here. Bless you.

  302. Marvin September 7, 2010

    How does the group work. I live in Taiwan/ China so I’m 14 hours before the USA.

    1. Sherry W. September 7, 2010

      Marvin – You just write a letter to your kid(s) on the second Friday…or in my case, sometime that 2nd weekend of the month. With the time change, you’ll get your letters done before the US folks! 😉 If you want to share about writing, you can join the OurCompassion site for sponsors (www.ourcompassion.org) and post a journal entry. Would love to see you there!

      People post about their letters on Twitter, too. (Look for the OurCompassion post on Friday)

    2. June Gauss September 7, 2010

      Marvin-This group is committed to writing on the second Friday each month. No need to worry about the time difference. I set the second Friday of the month for the group so that it was easy to remember and the same every month. I’m glad you want to participate from Taiwan/China!!

  303. Sherry W. September 7, 2010

    Can’t manage Friday night this month, so we’re doing a “WYK” Write Your Kid Saturday instead. (My kids call this weekend the WYKend ;-). We’re inviting a couple of sponsor friends to join us. Thanks for this idea, June! You’ve inspired a great way for us to keep our commitment to writing to our kids every month.

  304. Adrian September 7, 2010

    Great article, I found it very inspirational.

    One question I’ve often had is, does my child feel ripped off receiving electronic letters? I can always find a moment to type a letter while I’m on the website giving, but it has been quite some time since I wrote a letter by hand (with actual ink!)

    I know I like to see the actual handwriting of our child, so I can’t imagine why he wouldn’t prefer that from me.

    My question is somewhat rhetorical, as I expect only my child knows the answer, but I welcome everyone’s thoughts.

    1. Kees Boer September 7, 2010

      Hi, Adrian,

      The children do know that the letters were written by email. Now, I can’t speak of many of the countries, but when the email type letters (letters, written on the Compassion.com) website arive in Bolivia, they are printed on very nice colorful paper. Also, they go so much faster than the letters that are written and send via the regular snail mail. From the moment you sent it on the website, it could take anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks to get to the child. Of course, I am just speaking about Bolivia. I’m not sure how other country offices handle the emails.

      1. Adrian September 7, 2010

        Thanks Kees, I appreciate your insight.

        I also figure that many emails actually sent are worth many more than handwritten letters I have the good intention to write, but don’t get round to. That is why I like the immediacy of the online letter writing.

  305. Lindy September 7, 2010

    June, I love your idea, and I plan to join! Thanks for your faithfulness to use your God-given gifts to spur others on to love and good deeds!!!

  306. Kees Boer September 7, 2010

    I love this blog! I like the idea to write once a month. These children will consider themselves so blessed to receive your letters. Whereas many sponsors tend to look at the sponsorship as a financial commitment, the child looks at the sponsorship as a relationship. The letters are very important to them. When I visit the children, the first thing they want to show me is the letters. They also like to keep them as neat as possible.

  307. Joel Krigsman September 7, 2010

    Loved your article. Encouraged me to write another letter to my child and reinforced the importance of the letters. Thank you

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