How to Write Your Compassion Letters to Be Age Appropriate

When I first started sponsoring Vitoria, she was 5 years old. She drew me pictures of flowers and I sent her princess stickers. But then, before I knew it, she was a teenager. Gone were the crayon drawings and glittery stationary.

How to Write Your Compassion Letters to Be Age Appropriate

Vitoria and her letters through the years.

I could have mourned the loss of those sweet letters. But instead, I decided to embrace the new season Vitoria and I were entering. I fumbled through a year of letters until we finally figured out our new rhythm. She told me about her dreams. What she wanted to be when she grew up.

I watched Vitoria grow up through those letters. And I’m so glad I didn’t give up until that very last letter I wrote Vitoria two years ago when she graduated from the Compassion program.

I want to help you not give up. No matter what age of the child you sponsor, we’ve got some ideas for you to make letter-writing just a little easier! Just scroll down to the right age and start writing!

How to Write Your Compassion Letters to Be Age Appropriate

What do you say to a toddler?

  • When you sponsor a toddler, your letters are primarily to his or her caregiver.
  • Ask the child you sponsor’s parents about their life. What job do they have? What is their home like? Tell them about your neighborhood and daily life.
  • Ask the parents about their child. What is his personality like? What’s her favorite food?
  • How can you pray for the family? Follow up when they give you specific prayer requests.
  • Share about your family and send family photos – from one family to another!

Write the Toddler You Sponsor ››

How to Write Your Compassion Letters to Be Age Appropriate

What do you say to a school-age child?

  • Encourage him or her in their studies. Ask him his favorite subject and share what your favorite class was in school. Let her know you’re praying for her studies.
  • Kids love the weather! Don’t ask us why! Tell the child you sponsor about the weather where you live – even better if you can send a picture of your family enjoying the snow – or the beach!
  • Do you have pets? Did you have any when you were their age? Kids love animals too (and pictures of them!)
  • Tell the child you sponsor about your family – your kids, grandkids, nieces and nephews.
  • Make sure to ask about his or her family – and let them know you’re praying!

Write the Child You Sponsor ››

How to Write Your Compassion Letters to Be Age Appropriate

What do you say to a teenager?

  • The youth you sponsor is thinking about his or her future, a lot! Tellthem about what you do for a living and ask what they want to do when they grow up, and make sure you encourage them in that dream!
  • This is the key time to let him or her know you’re praying for them. There’s a lot of pressure to drop out of school and work – be his or her biggest cheerleader!
  • Ask about his or her studies, and encourage them in their education. Tell them about the things you loved about school – share your struggles too so they feel “normal” in what they’re experiencing.
  • Maybe you’ve amassed a lot of letters from him or her by now – when you can, look up recent letters in My Account and reference people and places they’ve mentioned so they know you’re interested in their life!

Write the Teen You Sponsor ››

How to Write Your Compassion Letters to Be Age Appropriate

What do you say to a young adult?

  • Keep being a cheerleader! Encourage him or her in their studies, their vocational training, and pursuing their dreams.
  • Continue to share verses, reminding the young adult you sponsor that God has a plan and a purpose for them. Tell them about verses that have impacted you in your own walk.
  • Young adults probably ask more questions in their letters – make sure you take a look at their last note and answer any questions they may have had for you. (Don’t forget you can look at recent letters in My Account!)
  • Keep sending photos – they like seeing your family grow and change!
  • In these last years of sponsorship, you have the opportunity to speak words of encouragement and hope – what a privilege for you as a sponsor!

Write the Young Adult You Sponsor ››

For more understanding on what is appropriate and not appropriate to share in your letters, check out the blog, “What Can I Share in Letters to the Child I Sponsor?

And as always, join us on Pinterest to share your ideas for writing letters to that special student you’re sponsoring by becoming part of the Compassion Letter Club!

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  1. Donna Hogarth September 23, 2017

    Thank you for this! I sponsor 10 little and not so little ones, ages 3-12, and this is a huge help!

  2. Terri P. September 19, 2017

    We sponsor children from age 6 to the teenage years, and we tell our kids that they are precious to God, loved by Him, and that He has a plan for their lives. We also tell our kids we are praying for them and try to include at least one age appropriate Bible verse. Since we cannot know how much time we/they may have left on this earth, we write often and try to make every letter/card count for eternity. Perhaps the last correspondence will be the very last our child ever receives from us; we want our words to be filled with love and encouragement to bring light to a dark corner of the world.

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